Name: The Perks of Being a Wallflower
ISBN: 9783464360002

Stephen Chbosky

The Perks of Being a Wallflower

Ambre

 "Charlie, we accept the love we think we deserve."

Abby Lane

Nour

sarina

Emma

sofia

Lorraine

Yoko simons 

Alba

And in that moment, I swear we were infinite.

Sanja.

Romy

And what we perceive as "deserved" usually results not from our intrinsic needs, but from our experiences and interactions with others.

Stephanie 

“Charlie, we accept the love we think we deserve.”

darby

Olivia 

foteini

Hedda Victoria

Someone

silke

taylor

I don’t know if you’ve ever felt like that. That you wanted to sleep for a thousand years. Or just not exist. Or just not be aware that you do exist. Or something like that. 

I think wanting that is very morbid, but I want it when I get like this. That’s why I’m trying not to think. I just want it all to stop spinning.

And I wonder if anyone is really happy. I hope they are. I really hope they are. 

So, this is my life. And I want you to know that I am both happy and sad and I’m still trying to figure out how that could be. 

Maybe it’s sad that these are now memories. And maybe it’s not sad. 

Elise Fonteyn

Charlie, we accept the love we think we deserve.

Rebeca Keren Nuñez

Amélie 

Eszter Baranyi

Chiara Tallir

Noi siamo infinito. Ragazzo da parete

Onestamente credevo di essere troppo vecchia per apprezzare questo libro, eppure mi è piaciuto lo stesso. 

Il format in cui è scritto mi ha sicuramente aiutato a digerirlo: probabilmente in forma narrativa non mi sarei ritrovata molto in tutti gli altri personaggi della storia (adolescenti americani.. mh), mentre sotto forma di lettera li ho digeriti meglio, anche perchè emerge principalmente il carattere di chiarlie. Non è tanto il fatto che mi ci sono rivista, quanto più il modo in cui racconta tutto quello che succede che mi ha sorpreso e attirato. 

mirta <3

Onestamente credevo di essere troppo vecchia per apprezzare questo libro, eppure mi è piaciuto lo stesso. 
Il format in cui è scritto mi ha sicuramente aiutato a digerirlo: probabilmente in forma narrativa non mi sarei ritrovata molto in tutti gli altri personaggi della storia (adolescenti americani.. mh), mentre sotto forma di lettera li ho digeriti meglio, anche perchè emerge principalmente il carattere di chiarlie. Non è tanto il fatto che mi ci sono rivista, quanto più il modo in cui racconta tutto quello che succede che mi ha sorpreso e attirato. 

Watched the movie when it came out but couldn’t get past Emma Watson’s American accent. Enjoyed the book a lot more than the film, a dark turn at the end but I really loved Charlie’s complexities. 

Jazz j

Charlie is a freshman. And while he's not the biggest geek in the school, he is by no means popular. Shy, introspective, intelligent beyond his years yet socially awkward, he is a wallflower, caught between trying to live his life and trying to run from it. Charlie is attempting to navigate his way through uncharted territory: the world of first dates and mixed tapes, family dramas and new friends; the world of sex, drugs, and The Rocky Horror Picture Show, when all one requires is that perfect song on that perfect drive to feel infinite. But Charlie can't stay on the sideline forever. Standing on the fringes of life offers a unique perspective. But there comes a time to see what it looks like from the dance floor.

The Perks of Being a Wallflower is a deeply affecting coming-of-age story that will spirit you back to those wild and poignant roller-coaster days known as growing up.

With all my being, I’ve come to imbue these three words the passion that, through sheer delusion alone, I’d hope could contain the emotion I’m feeling this quiet night with nothing but placidness all around me: i hate spoilers. this revelation’s come to me at, like, two months ago or something. yet another thing, another variable, for all my insistence that it was my only gripe and enemy when it came to “experiencing” a work at full, has come to my attention. Reading or watching a work, leaving it halfway in for months, maybe a year, and then coming back to finish it in three hours under one night is a type of loss I’ve gone through with this book because, as it stands to me now, i feel nothing, or hardly anything for it. when i closed the book, did you know what i thought? i thought: i guess it’s time for bed. then my body did just that. it never usually does, and i wasn’t even that tired at the time. i can’t tell for myself if it really was just the book itself and not because of how I read it. that it was because i’ve lost interest in the characters or forgotten a huge chunk of the previous chapters or could not, for the death of white lily, attach myself to any words on those page because i was just myself, in that way. i don’t really know. a lot of other people thought this book was good—lifechanging, even. and for all my convincing myself and rebooting my thinking that i shouldn’t think this or that because it’s what everyone else thinks, there should be something or a reason as to why they do, right? well, yeah, that plot twist on aunt helen was definitely something, and i think forgetting a good chunk of the story’s affected my reading experience. so—i dont know. i’m conflicted. with how i read this story and how i feel about it now, and blaming it on the book itself with no concrete feeling or “evidence” as to why i would’ve thought the same, that this book was lacking to me, in a way, just sounds wrong. odd. i’ve had something similar while reading the book thief, and even that experience was ‘spoiled’ by spoilers, so i admittedly wouldn’t know if the if’s i say would be right or not, for all that i know of myself. overall an interesting book, maybe. just never was a big fan of coming-of-age stories, and i always liked stories with big fallouts or established characters in their established lives and established relationships and seeing how the flaws of those relationships—molds in their wooden structures or flimsy adhesives or chipping brick—could change and alter, maybe with the integration of new characters, integration of the main character themselves, integration of a problem or question of inevitably, and letting it speak for itself, what it is. or poke and prod at it as the author wishes, which I also equally love. anyhow this has gone off-topic. good book, recommend, yeah.

south-getaway

read this when i was going through a lot as a teenager and  reread this again while going through a lot again but in my 20s this time and unintentionally. and gosh, this book never left me. forgot how seen i felt by charlie and how much we think alike. the attention to detail with his thought processes and the way his letters are written is so tender so heartful ooouuu i can't believe i ever forgot this. so glad i decided to come back to this so randomly. i think i was meant to

syre

After reading The Perks of Being a Wallflower, I can honestly say that I liked the book more than the movie, even though they were created by the same person. While the film adaptation was well done, the book simply offered a deeper and more personal experience.

What made the novel stand out to me was how much more it explored Charlie’s experiences and trauma. The letter format made the story feel incredibly intimate and raw, as if Charlie was speaking directly to the reader. Because it was written as letters, everything felt more personal and psychological. We weren’t just watching things happen — we were inside his mind, understanding his thoughts, confusion, and emotional struggles in a much deeper way.

The book also dives further into Charlie’s mental health. His breakdown and repressed trauma weren’t rushed or shortened, which allowed readers to fully understand his psychological state. The detailed descriptions gave more emotional weight to his journey, making his struggles feel real and impactful.

Another reason I preferred the book was the inclusion of small moments and subplots that weren’t fully shown in the movie. These details helped develop the side characters more, allowing readers to truly get to know them. The novel included more of Charlie’s “wallflower” observations — those quiet reflections about people, relationships, and life. The relationship dynamics were also more layered and detailed, which made the connections between characters feel more authentic.

Overall, the book was a more reflective and heavier read compared to the movie. While the film softened some aspects of the story for a broader audience, the novel embraced the rawness of Charlie’s experiences. For me, that honesty and emotional depth made the reading experience much more powerful and meaningful.

After reading The Perks of Being a Wallflower, I can honestly say that I liked the book more than the movie, even though they were created by the same person. While the film adaptation was well done, the book simply offered a deeper and more personal experience.

What made the novel stand out to me was how much more it explored Charlie’s experiences and trauma. The letter format made the story feel incredibly intimate and raw, as if Charlie was speaking directly to the reader. Because it was written as letters, everything felt more personal and psychological. We weren’t just watching things happen — we were inside his mind, understanding his thoughts, confusion, and emotional struggles in a much deeper way.

The book also dives further into Charlie’s mental health. His breakdown and repressed trauma weren’t rushed or shortened, which allowed readers to fully understand his psychological state. The detailed descriptions gave more emotional weight to his journey, making his struggles feel real and impactful.

Another reason I preferred the book was the inclusion of small moments and subplots that weren’t fully shown in the movie. These details helped develop the side characters more, allowing readers to truly get to know them. The novel included more of Charlie’s “wallflower” observations — those quiet reflections about people, relationships, and life. The relationship dynamics were also more layered and detailed, which made the connections between characters feel more authentic.

Overall, the book was a more reflective and heavier read compared to the movie. While the film softened some aspects of the story for a broader audience, the novel embraced the rawness of Charlie’s experiences. For me, that honesty and emotional depth made the reading experience much more powerful and meaningful.

Claire Maguet

A series of letters to an unknown correspondent reveals the coming-of-age trials of a high-schooler named Charlie

First time rereading since high school, JFC this is so heartbreaking. CHARLIE! 🥺 I will prob reread again in life, just need time to heal my heart. 

Kyra Cracchiola

beautiful book both writing and plot and so heartbreaking. will be watching the movie for sure, although i’ve heard it doesn’t do it justice.

evie coxon

i didnt know that other people thought things about me

hayley 

„And there are people who forget what it’s like to be sixteen when they turn seventeen. I know these will all be stories someday, and our pictures will become old photographs. And we’ll all become somebody’s mom or dad. But right now, these moments are not stories. This is happening. I am here and I am looking at her. And she is so beautiful. I can see it. This one moment when you know you’re not a sad story. You are alive. And you stand up and see the lights on the buildings and everything that makes you wonder. And you’re listening to that song on that drive with the people you love most in this world. And in this moment, I swear, we are infinite."

I will never not cry at this monologue. This book shows such a realistic sideof feeling and struggeling, and this wierd nostalgic feelin, that feels like a think to me teenagers have that adults end up forgetting, that really makes you feel like you are „infinite“ sometimes. 

mia sofie

„And there are people who forget what it’s like to be sixteen when they turn seventeen. I know these will all be stories someday, and our pictures will become old photographs. And we’ll all become somebody’s mom or dad. But right now, these moments are not stories. This is happening. I am here and I am looking at her. And she is so beautiful. I can see it. This one moment when you know you’re not a sad story. You are alive. And you stand up and see the lights on the buildings and everything that makes you wonder. And you’re listening to that song on that drive with the people you love most in this world. And in this moment, I swear, we are infinite."

I will never not cry at this monologue. This book shows such a realistic sideof feeling and struggeling, and this wierd nostalgic feelin, that feels like a think to me teenagers have that adults end up forgetting, that really makes you feel like you are „infinite“ sometimes. 

I was not expecting this book to go as hard as it did. The writing is somehow simple yet beautifully poignant. Charlie is my new favorite relatable protagonist.

Another reviewer summed up my feelings exactly so I'm quoting them here to remember for myself:

"feels like a book that unties knots you never knew you had about growing up, being sensitive, anxious and feeling things just a bit too much...

"it's like a hand holding yours while you walk through a field. but the field is about growing up and being conscious of things as you gain new perspectives and get older. charlie's thoughts overlap with yours and the reaffirmation is something i hardly find in a young adult book. his and your emotions got processed at the same time and you grow as he grows. it's like drinking warm milk."

I cried many, many times throughout the single day it took me to read this treasure. Though I don't agree with this book being banned, I can see why it has been; it is extremely intense for sensitive individuals, and I can imagine a young person being sub-atomically transformed by it. If I had a high schooler (absolutely no younger) wanting to read it, I would read it along with them, and tell them as Charlie's beloved teacher Bill said: "Be a filter, not a sponge."

Bethany

I was not expecting this book to go as hard as it did. The writing is somehow simple yet beautifully poignant. Charlie is my new favorite relatable protagonist.

Another reviewer summed up my feelings exactly so I'm quoting them here to remember for myself:

"feels like a book that unties knots you never knew you had about growing up, being sensitive, anxious and feeling things just a bit too much...

"it's like a hand holding yours while you walk through a field. but the field is about growing up and being conscious of things as you gain new perspectives and get older. charlie's thoughts overlap with yours and the reaffirmation is something i hardly find in a young adult book. his and your emotions got processed at the same time and you grow as he grows. it's like drinking warm milk."

I cried many, many times throughout the single day it took me to read this treasure. Though I don't agree with this book being banned, I can see why it has been; it is extremely intense for sensitive individuals, and I can imagine a young person being sub-atomically transformed by it. If I had a high schooler (absolutely no younger) wanting to read it, I would read it along with them, and tell them as Charlie's beloved teacher Bill said: "Be a filter, not a sponge."

I read this when I was a teenager and honestly I forget about the ending. I see it differently now that I did then. And different things resonated with me. It’s a beautiful book. 

Brittnee Coffmen

I had watched this movie years ago and forgot how it went completely. Reading the book, I thought it was going to be following a boy’s life, but omg was it gut-wrenching. It felt like I was there silently watching Charlie and his life play out. I think if I were to read this any earlier or later it wouldn’t have come off as significant as it did. 

Karina Ramos-Sotelo

It's so real and surprisingly relateable. Every single characters no matter how small the role feels so humane and feels like I know them personally.

kittie

This may take the place of my favorite book ever. It has so many amazing moments that just allow you to come to the conclusion that you are alive and real and changing. You can be the person that listens and understands and didnt try to sleep with that person even though you could. No matter your struggle every day you make it further you are alive and you are taking steps to win at the never ending game of life. So now I sit here and reflect while listening to landslide and hoping to one day feel infinite.

Jordyn

so sad so beautiful si perfevt i wish icoukd rate it higher than 5😔😔💔💔💔

gurlene 

maggie sweeney

ang 

i wanna just lay down and cry, i love you so much charlie i swear.

Shy, introspective, intelligent beyond his years, caught between trying to live his life and trying to run from it, Charlie is attempting to navigate through the uncharted territory of high school. The world of first dates and mixed tapes, family dramas and new friends. The world of sex, drugs, and music - when all one requires to feel infinite is that perfect song on that perfect drive. Standing on the fringes of life Charlie has a unique perspective of the world around him, but there comes a time to stop being a wallflower and see what it looks like from the dance floor. This haunting novel about the dilemma of passivity vs. passion has become a modern classic. Charlie's letters are singular and unique, hilarious and devastating and through Charlie, Stephen Chbosky has created a deeply affecting story that will spirit you back to those wild and poignant roller coaster days known as growing up.

was skeptical, but this is an essential read for a young adult. not 5/5 just because of that thing at the end which didn't seem right to me, apart from that, phenomenal.

feels like a book that unties knots you never knew you had about growing up, being sensitive, anxious and feeling things just a bit too much. panic attack is represented here too which is nice.

it's like a hand holding yours while you walk through a field. but the field is about growing up and being conscious of things as you gain new perspectives and get older. charlie's thoughts overlap with yours and the reaffirmation is something i hardly find in a young adult book. his and your emotions got processed at the same time and you grow as he grows. it's like drinking warm milk.

feels like what radio silence was trying to be, or any coming-of-age book in general. this is the real stuff. 10000% recommend. 

was skeptical, but this is an essential read for a young adult. not 5/5 just because of that thing at the end which didn't seem right to me, apart from that, phenomenal.

feels like a book that unties knots you never knew you had about growing up, being sensitive, anxious and feeling things just a bit too much. panic attack is represented here too which is nice.

it's like a hand holding yours while you walk through a field. but the field is about growing up and being conscious of things as you gain new perspectives and get older. charlie's thoughts overlap with yours and the reaffirmation is something i hardly find in a young adult book. his and your emotions got processed at the same time and you grow as he grows. it's like drinking warm milk.

feels like what radio silence was trying to be, or any coming-of-age book in general. this is the real stuff. 10000% recommend. 

Miru

You wouldnt think the author is a noob.
GoodBook. GoodRead.

Anna 

Zamilovala jsem se do filmu a chtěla jsem se zamilovat i do knihy. Vážně jsem si to přála. Ale nejde to. Během čtení jsem začala o hodně věcech přemýšlet. A došla jsem k závěru, že Charlie musí trpět nějakou duševní poruchou, jelikož ve svých dopisech nepřemýšlel jako šestnáctiletý kluk. Vážně ne. Udělal si kamarády o tři roky starší než on sám. A jediné, co jeho kamarádi dělali, bylo to, že ho nořili do ještě větších sra*ek než ve kterých už byl. Nebyli to kamarádi.
Kniha se lehce dotýká témat jako je znásilnění, sexuální zneužívání, potrat, deprese a mnohem více.. Ale jak říkám, kniha se jich jen DOTÝKÁ. Není to tam rozebrané, autor si jen odškrtl důležité věci, které by v každé knize o střední škole měly být.
Přijde mi, že hrozně moc lidí romantizuje Charlieho nemoc a jeho vztah s kamarády, a já jsem to asi podle všeho dělala taky, když jsem viděla film.
Nevím, kniha takhle určitě byla napsaná schválně, ale prostě mi na tom vadí, že tam je tolik věcí nedořešených a nevyjasněných. Kdyby autor na konec knihy napsal nějaké vyjádření, třeba proč napsal tuto knihu, kdo je vlastně Charlie, proč se mu stalo to co se stalo, třeba bych byla moudřejší. Ale z tohodle fakt nevím, co si mám myslet.. A mrzí mě to.
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Na Instagramovém výběru mám sice 3,5*/5*, ale měním názor, protože bych se vážně měla naučit dávat taková hodnocení, jaká si podle mě knihy zaslouží.. Takže nakonec dávám 3*/5*

Everyone can relate to this book because it holds the aspects of growing up and the reality of living. Whether you’re a teenager and experiencing what you are reading or an adult reflecting on those times, let the nostalgia consume you.

Emily Burns

Absolutely gorgeous fictional memoir of a troubled teenage psyche.

The Perks of Being a Wallflower

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