Dr. Emerson Eggerichs

When will we learn? With every sunrise we are given plenty of new examples of people “Hitting Send” and soon regretting it. Social media means what it says: it is social! Our methods of communication today allow for something to potentially be broadcast to everyone from Pekin, Illinois to Peking, China. But it’s not only Twitter fanatics who can find themselves in trouble. Every single one of us is capable of falling prey to this growing plague. Every day we have the potential of both verbal and written blunders. It makes no difference if we are talking to a stranger over a meat counter, chatting on a cell phone with our mother, or sending an e-mail to a coworker; we can and do miscommunicate and people can and do get the wrong idea. When we don't pause long enough to think before speaking or writing, it commonly yields a misunderstanding and leads to a clash. We end up being the person who said, “You know that sphere of the brain that stops you from saying something that you shouldn't? Well, I don’t have one of those.” This book is about preventing that misunderstanding and allowing for understanding. Said another way, preempting people from getting the wrong idea and enabling them to get the right idea! We all need work in this area in far more ways than just glancing through a checklist. From external examples to internal turmoil, Before You Hit Send is about the four things we must think through before communicating. In all things we wish to say or write, we would be wise to ask ourselves, Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? Is it clear? When we ask and answer these four questions honestly, we will be thinking wisely before we speak. But to explore this fully, we need to find out a whole lot more about ourselves and uncover why we consciously and subconsciously get into these communication disasters to begin with. You may be surprised what you discover about yourself. Shall we begin?

Preventing Headache and Heartache

Before You Hit Send

A New York Times best-selling marriage book making a difference! More than one million copies sold! Based on over three decades of counseling, as well as scientific and biblical research, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs and his wife, Sarah, have already taken the Love & Respect message across America and are changing the way couples talk to, think about, and treat each other. What do you want for your marriage? Want some peace? Want to feel close? Want to feel valued? Want to experience marriage the way God intended? Then why not try some Love and Respect. A wife has one driving need?to feel loved. When that need is met, she is happy. A husband has one driving need?to feel respected. When that need is met, he is happy. When either of these needs isn’t met, things get crazy. Love & Respect reveals why spouses react negatively to each other, and how they can deal with such conflict quickly, easily, and biblically. What readers say about Love & Respect “I’ve been married 35 years and have not heard this taught.” “This is the key that I have been missing.” “You connected all the dots for me.” “As a counselor, I have never been so excited about any material.” “You’re on to something huge here.” Partner Love & Respect with the Love & Respect Workbook for Couples, Individuals, and Groups for an added experience. Love & Respect is also available in Spanish, Amor y Respeto.

The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs

Love and Respect

Se um CEO de uma corporação multinacional compartilhar a sós com seu amigo de infância que odeia o que faz, é bem provável que ele ouvirá conselhos sinceros sobre a gestão de sua carreira. Porém, se ele usar as mesmas palavras num tuíte enviado para seus milhares de seguidores, com certeza terá sérios problemas para resolver, talvez até incontornáveis. Estudiosos do comportamento humano têm pesquisado sobre a intensidade do fluxo das informações nas mídias sociais e sua incidência nas relações entre as pessoas, tanto políticos, empresários, atores ou atletas profissionais famosos quanto anônimos que apenas desejam externar suas opiniões. Em Pense bem antes de enviar, Emerson Eggerichs fala sobre uma máxima muito antiga; pensar antes de falar. E o faz elaborando quatro perguntas: Isto é verdade? Isto é algo bom? Isto é necessário? Isto está claro? Se você já se arrependeu de ter escrito uma mensagem logo após tê-la enviado, este livro é para você.

Pense bem antes de enviar

A sikeres gyermeknevelés legfontosabb kulcsa A legújabb pszichológiai kutatások pontosan azt támasztják alá, amit a Biblia már ősidők óta tanít: a gyerekeknek szükségük van arra a szeretetre, ami Isten parancsa a szülők számára, a szülők pedig arra a tiszteletre vágynak, amely a Szentírás szerint jár nekik gyermekeik részéről. A Szeretet és tisztelet a családban című könyv gyakorlati tanácsokat nyújt arra vonatkozóan, hogyan szakíthatjuk meg az őrület körét a családi konfliktusokban és hogyan vehetjük fel azt az egészséges ritmust, amivel feltöltődhetünk és bejuthatunk az áldásba. E könyv célja, hogy a családtagok között egészséges kapcsolatok alakulhassanak ki a nevelés témájával foglalkozó bibliai alapelvek mentén. Dr. Eggerichs őszintén elmondja, milyen tapasztalatokra tettek szert feleségével három gyermekük nevelése során, valamint bölcs tanácsokkal látja el az olvasókat azzal kapcsolatban, hogyan lehetséges a különféle családi élethelyzetekben fellépni és azokat sikerrel kezelni. A könyv szemnyitogató módon tárja fel a gyermeknevelés bibliai alapelveit, amelyek úgy képesek működtetni a családot, ahogyan azt Isten eleve eltervezte.

Tisztelet, amire a szülők leginkább vágynak; Szeretet, amire a gyermekeknek alapvető szükségük van

Szeretet és tisztelet a családban

Children need love. Parents need respect. It is as simple and complex as that! When frustrated with an unresponsive child, a parent doesn’t declare, “You don’t love me.” Instead the parent asserts, “You are being disrespectful right now.” A parent needs to feel respected, especially during conflicts. When upset a child does not whine, “You don’t respect me.” Instead, a child pouts, “You don’t love me.” A child needs to feel loved, especially during disputes. But here’s the rub: An unloved child (or teen) negatively reacts in a way that feels disrespectful to a parent. A disrespected parent negatively reacts in a way that feels unloving to the child. This dynamic gives birth to the FAMILY CRAZY CYCLE. So how is one to break out of this cycle? Best-selling author Emerson Eggerichs has studied the family dynamic for more than 30 years, having his Ph.D. in Child and Family Ecology. As a senior pastor for nearly two decades, Eggerichs builds on a foundation of strong biblical principles, walking the reader through an entirely new way to approach the family dynamic. For instance, God reveals ways to defuse the craziness with our children from preschooler to teen, plus how to motivate them to obey and how to deal with them when they don’t. In the Bible, God has spoken specifically to parents on how to parent. This book is about that revelation.

The Respect Parents Desire; The Love Children Need

Love and Respect in the Family

When you touch your spouseÆs deepest need, something good almost always happens! Based on three decades of counseling and research, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs leads couples through the intricacies of a marriage built on Love and Respect. He explores the differences in men and women and how a husbandÆs need for respect can be balanced by a wifeÆs need for love. When these needs are mutually recognized and made a priority, a fulfilling and meaningful marriage will be the inevitable result. Love and Respect for a Lifetime makes the ideal gift: ItÆs all color, photo-filled design makes it inviting for couples to look at together. It is a compilation of Dr. Eggerichs best Love & Respect tips: a quick and easy read that proves enticing to a spouse that might be apprehensive of working through an entire study or book. ItÆs engaging message validates the core needs of each spouse and gives a message of hope, encouragement and practical time-tested solutions for every marriage rather than focusing on placing blame or judging. ItÆs ideal as a gift for dating or engaged couples, as well as a wedding or anniversary gift. ItÆs elegant design invites the recipients to open, read it together and leave out as a display for others to take a closer look at what it means to love her and to respect him.

Women Absolutely Need Love. Men Absolutely Need Respect. Its as Simple and as Complicated as That...

Love and Respect for a Lifetime: Gift Book

A feleséget mindenekfelett a szeretettség iránti vágy vezérli. Amennyiben ez a szüksége betöltésre kerül, boldognak érzi magát. A férjet mindenekfelett a tisztelet iránti vágy vezérli. Amennyiben ez a szüksége betöltésre kerül, boldognak érzi magát. Ha azonban a fenti szükségek bármelyike is betöltetlen, a hátasságban eluralkodik az őrület! Ez a könyv világosan elmagyarázza, hogy a házasfelek, miért reagálnak negatívan egymás felé, illetve tanácsokat ad, hogyan lehet az ilyen konfliktusokat gyorsan, egyszerűen, bibliai módon kezelni. Dr Emerson Eggerichs és felesége, Sarah több mint három évtizednyi lelkészi és tanácsadói szolgálat tapasztalatainak birtokában, továbbá elmélyült tudományos és bibliai kutatómunka eredményeképpen Amerika-szerte nagy sikerrel ismerteti meg a feltétel nélküli szeretet és tisztelet üzenetét. Sok száz házaspár kezdett másként gondolkodni egymásról, továbbá új módon kommunikálni és sokkal pozitívabban viszonyulni a másikhoz. Milyen házasságot szeretnél? Olyat, amelyre a felek kölcsönös nagyraértékelése jellemző? Amelyben békesség, megértés, valamint őszinte, bizalmas viszonyulás uralkodik? Szeretnéd, ha a házasságod arra a minőségre emelkedne, amilyenre azt Isten tervezte? Akkor nektek is a szeretet és tisztelet alapjára kell építkezni!

SZERETET ÉS TISZTELET

An in-depth study of the vital principles from the best-selling Cracking the Communication Code now in workbook form. Communication between couples has been dissected in thousands of books and articles, so why does it remain the number one marriage problem? "Because," says Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, "most spouses don't know that they speak two different languages. They are sending each other messages in 'code,' but they won't crack that code until they see that she listens to hear the language of love and he listens to hear the language of respect." Dr. Eggerichs' best-selling book, Love and Respect, launched a revolution in how couples relate to each other. Now with the Cracking the Communication Code companion workbook, the message of this hardcover trade book can be studied and applied whether for a group or for individual couples. The result will be better communication, mutual understanding, and a successful godly marriage.

The Secret to Speaking Your Mate's Language

Cracking the Communication Code

A Revolutionary Solution to the #1 Marriage Problem Why does communication between couples remain the number one marriage issue? “Because,” says Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, “most spouses don’t know that they speak two different languages. They are sending each other messages in ‘code,’ but they won’t crack that code until they see that she listens to hear the language of love and he listens to hear the language of respect.” Dr. Eggerichs’ best-selling book, Love & Respect, launched a revolution in how couples relate to each other. In The Language of Love & Respect, he presents a practical, step-by-step approach for how husbands and wives can learn to speak each other’s distinctly different language—respect for him, love for her. The result is mutual understanding and a successful, happy marriage. Previously released as Cracking the Communication Code

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