Janet W. Hardy

Eve Rickert

Franklin Veaux

From Ancient Greece through the many dynasties of China to current practices of non-monogamy, people have openly engaged in multiple intimate relationships. Not until the late 20th century, however, was a word coined that encapsulated the practice: polyamory.

A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

More Than Two

Dossie Easton

The classic guide to love, sex, and intimacy beyond the limits of conventional monogamy has been fully updated to reflect today's modern attitudes and the latest information on nontraditional relationships. For 20 years The Ethical Slut has dispelled myths and showed curious readers how to maintain a successful polyamorous lifestyle through open communication, emotional honesty, and safer sex practices. The third edition of this timeless guide to communication and sex has been revised to include interviews with poly millennials (young people who have grown up without the prejudices their elders encountered regarding gender, orientation, sexuality, and relationships), tributes to poly pioneers, and new sidebars on topics such as asexuality, sex workers, and ways polys can connect and thrive. The authors also include new content addressing nontraditional relationships beyond the polyamorous paradigm of "more than two": couples who don't live together, couples who don't have sex with each other, nonparallel arrangements, couples with widely divergent sex styles, power disparities, and cross-orientation relationships, while utilizing nonbinary gender language and new terms that have come into common usage since the last edition.

A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love

The Ethical Slut

Companion to the 'New Bottoming Book', this is a,completely revised and updated edition of the,best-selling underground classic for nearly a,decade. Gives even more insight and ideas for,those who want to be a successful player.

The New Topping Book

The classic guide to love, sex, and intimacy beyond the limits of conventional monogamy has been fully updated to reflect today’s modern attitudes and the latest information on nontraditional relationships. “One of the most useful relationship books you could ever read, no matter what your lifestyle choices. It’s chock-full of great information about communication, jealousy, asking for what you want, and maintaining a relationship with integrity.”—Annie Sprinkle, PhD, sexologist and author of Dr. Sprinkle’s Spectacular Sex For 20 years The Ethical Slut—widely known as the “Poly Bible”—has dispelled myths and showed curious readers how to maintain a successful polyamorous lifestyle through open communication, emotional honesty, and safer sex practices. The third edition of this timeless guide to the ethics of relationships, communication, and sex has been revised to include: • Interviews with poly millennials (young people who have grown up without the prejudices their elders encountered regarding gender, orientation, sexuality, and relationships) • Tributes to polyamory pioneers • Tools for conflict resolution and instructions on how to improve interpersonal dynamics • New sidebars on topics such as asexuality, sex workers, LGBTQ terminology, and ways polys can connect and thrive The authors also include new content addressing nontraditional relationships beyond the polyamorous paradigm of “more than two”: couples who don't live together, couples who don't have sex with each other, nonparallel arrangements, couples with widely divergent sex styles, power disparities, and cross-orientation relationships, while utilizing nonbinary gender language and new terms that have come into common usage since the last edition.

A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love

The Ethical Slut, Third Edition

Ética promiscua

The essential guide for singles and couples who want to explore polyamory in ways that are ethically and emotionally sustainable. For anyone who has ever dreamed of love, sex, and companionship beyond the limits of traditional monogamy, this groundbreaking guide navigates the infinite possibilities that open relationships can offer. Experienced ethical sluts Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy dispel myths and cover all the skills necessary to maintain a successful and responsible polyamorous lifestyle--from self-reflection and honest communication to practicing safe sex and raising a family. Individuals and their partners will learn how to discuss and honor boundaries, resolve conflicts, and to define relationships on their own terms. "I couldn't stop reading it, and I for one identify as an ethical slut. This is a book for anyone interested in creating more pleasure in their lives . . . a complete guide to improving any style of relating, from going steady to having an extended family of sexual friends." --Betty Dodson, PhD, author of Sex for One

A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Adventures

The Ethical Slut, Second Edition

Consensual adult spanking can be sexy or strict, giggly or grave, gentle enough to pinken the skin or intense enough to leave marks. It can involve infinite combinations of roles, implements and positions - enough to keep even the most avid spankophile busy for a lifetime. Janet W. Hardy (formerly "Lady Green") has been a spanker and spankee for more than a quarter century, with partners of all genders from all over the globe. Here, paired with famed spanking illustrator "Barb," she offers the how-to and why-to of spanking for anyone from the beginner looking to spice up their sex life to the advanced player. This book combines the content of Hardy's previous books "The Compleat Spanker" and "The Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning" into a comprehensive, readable guide that will take its place among the classics of kinky sexuality.

Spanking for Lovers

Discover the possibilities of joyous, sustainable relationships with yourself and others through this thoughtful and engaging workbook from the bestselling authors of the groundbreaking The Ethical Slut. For more than two decades, The Ethical Slut—which has sold over half of a million copies since its original publication—has dispelled myths and showed curious readers of all orientations how to maintain successful nontraditional relationships through open communication, emotional honesty, and safer sex practices. Whether you've read The Ethical Slut or not, whether you're new or well-versed in the spectrums of gender and sexuality, this is the perfect starting point. If you’re looking to offer love and support to yourself and the people you care about, discover your ideal style of loving yourself and others, or expand your understanding of what makes a relationship work, The Ethical Slut Workbook takes you on an exploration of the wonderful world of relationships. Sex experts Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy walk readers through the process of understanding relationships and how they can look through exercises and writing activities (to do solo, or with a partner) like: What do you want out of your relationships? How do you picture your romantic life? Describe your sex life as it is today. What would you change, if changing were easy? So you want to open up your relationship—write down the perfect way the conversation with your partner could go. What are some issues that may arise during that conversation? What’s a healthy relationship you’ve seen? What was your criteria for a healthy relationship? Do you feel like there may be any downsides to this kind of relationship? In The Ethical Slut Workbook, Dossie and Janet have distilled their combined decades of knowledge into this workbook of thoughtful questions, hypothetical scenarios, and list-making prompts for anyone who wants to break free from society’s standard for relationships. This guided journal is the ultimate tool to discover the possibilities of joyous, sustainable relationships outside of traditional monogamy.

An Adventurer's Companion to Joyous, Sustainable Relationships of All Kinds

The Ethical Slut Workbook

SM Journeys to Transcendence

Radical Ecstasy

Dossie . Hardy Easton

Eine praktische Anleitung für Polyamorie, offene Beziehungen und andere Abenteuer

Schlampen mit Moral

The 25-year-old classic, now updated and in a fun new graphic format! Janet W. Hardy, formerly known as Lady Green, has distilled the best of her 35 years' experience as a dominant into this beginner-friendly guidebook: everything from bondage to control to sensation to fetish, all with entertaining drawings, intro-level information, and plenty of reassurance for the nervous or apprehensive novice. The perfect purchase or gift for any woman who would like to spice up her bedroom play with a bit of kink.

An Illustrated Guide for Nervous Beginners

The Sexually Dominant Woman

Warum nur eine(n) lieben, wenn man sie alle haben kann? Schon vor 20 Jahren haben sich die Beziehungspionierinnen Dossie Easton und Janet Hardy ausführlich mit dieser Frage beschäftigt. Nun folgt endlich die überarbeitete Neuausgabe mit vielen aktuellen Interviews und neuen Kapiteln zu allen Arten von Beziehungen: Paare, die nicht zusammen wohnen, Paare, die keinen Sex miteinander haben, Paare, die Sex mit anderen haben. Jede Art der Liebe und Sexualität findet in diesem umfassenden Werk seine Berücksichtigung, denn alles ist erlaubt, was Spaß macht.

Warum es an der Zeit ist, Sex und Liebe neu zu denken – wie Polyamorie, offene Beziehungen und andere Abenteuer gelingen können

Schlampen mit Moral: Erweiterte Neuausgabe

"Others have turned to Janet W. Hardy's 'The Ethical Slut', 'The New Topping Book' and 'The New Bottoming Book' - for advice on the most challenging questions of sex, polyamory, kink, and self-identity. But Janet had to make it up as she went. How did she do it? Well, as you might expect from the co-author of 'Sex Disasters... and How to Survive Them', it hasn't all been roses (or thorns for that matter). Here, in IMPERVIOUS: Confessions of a Semi-Retired Deviant, Janet takes you through the five twisty stages of her own kinky life--mirroring those of any good scene--negotiation, warmup, engagement, climax, and aftercare. Delicious (and surprising) details await you inside. Bon Appétit!"--Amazon.com.

Confessions of a Semi-retired Deviant

Impervious

Charles Moser, Ph.D., M.D.

"Well, she said she was eighteen." "Hey, where'd the condom go?" "Eww, how do I get these stains out of the sheets?" Some sex disasters make you laugh. Some make you cringe. Some send you running for help. And here's the place to learn about all of them... a jammed handcuff, a short-circuited vibrator, a cop at the door, a date who won't take no for an answer, a gray pubic hair, and dozens more. Physician Moser, educator Hardy, and a consulting team of attorneys, cops, EMTs, therapists and sex educators team up to create a tongue-in-cheek - but factually accurate - guide to surviving those awkward moments inside the bedroom, dungeon, back seat, bushes... "A funny, delightful bedside companion, and an absolutely incredible resource for when things - inevitably - go wrong." - Paul Joannides, author, The Guide to Getting It On

... and how to survive them

Sex Disasters...

Nederlandse vertaling van het klassieke handboek voor polyamorie, open relaties en meer vrijheid in seks en de liefde. 'De integere slet' van Janet Hardy & Dossy Easton is een cultklassieker op het gebied van polyamorie. Van de Engelse editie zijn meer dan 200.000 exemplaren verkocht. Toch is het boek niet eerder in het Nederlands vertaald, tot nu. Hardy en Easton laten zien hoe je op een moreel verantwoorde manier meerdere geliefden tegelijkertijd kunt hebben. Het boek geeft antwoord op alle mogelijke vragen over de polyamoreuze levensstijl, en biedt handreikingen voor de bijbehorende uitdagingen, zoals jaloezie en oordelen uit de omgeving.

Handboek polyamorie

De integere slet

En 1997, un objet littéraire non identifié en provenance des États-Unis nous percutait de plein fouet : The Ethical Slut de Dossie Easton et Janet W Hardy, autrement dit La Salope éthique...Mais quelle était donc cette créature singulière, cette salope autoproclamée et de plus douée d’un sens éthique ? Dans certains cercles avertis l’ouvrage eut un retentissement considérable. Très rapidement il devint la bible de celles et ceux à qui la perspective de la monogamie-jusqu’à-ce-que-la-mort-nous-sépare semblait un tout petit peu terne. Ainsi La Salope Éthique revendiquait le droit de sortir des sentiers battus. Héritière du libertinage et de l’amour libre, elle faisait l’apologie du "polyamour"...sans pour autant invalider la monogamie choisie après mûres réflexions. "Polyamour ?" Vous voulez dire "polygamie ?" Pas exactement. Pour expliquer le polyamour il suffit de prendre en compte les postulats inébranlables sur lesquels il repose : consentement et consensualité, introspection lucide, limites personnelles claires et précises, respect de ces limites ainsi que de celles d’autrui, communication honnête, désir de garantir le bien-être de l’ensemble des partenaires... et puis fidélité. Eh oui, de même que le concept de "salope abstinente" n’est, comme vous le découvrirez dans cet ouvrage, pas un oxymore, la fidélité fait bel et bien partie intégrante des relations multiples. Car fidélité signifie avant tout respect des engagements pris ! Déconstruisant allègrement les mythes et les fondements de l’Occident en matière d’amours et de sexualités, Dossie Easton et Janet W. Hardy ont mis, dans cet ouvrage mis à jour et adapté à notre culture, leur expérience à notre service pour nous offrir une magnifique boîte à outils relationnelle. Désapprentissage de la jalousie, disputes équitables, conflits constructifs, ruptures sereines, tout en baignant dans une abondance d’amour et d’amitié...tout cela est devenu de l’ordre du possible pour les salopes éthiques. Une salope éthique donc, mais aussi épanouie, en harmonie avec le monde et débordante d’humanité. Un guide de vie qui concerne tout le monde au-delà du sexe, du genre et de la sexualité !

Guide pratique pour des relations libres sereines

La salope éthique

Avoir plusieurs amoureux, les respecter et se respecter

L'éthique des amours plurielles

Compreender que a monogamia é uma construção ideológica não é tão difícil quanto romper com esse conceito na prática. Desde crianças, somos programados para o amor romântico. Por isso, se você decide pautar suas relações por padrões que escapam à tradição do "felizes para sempre", pode enfrentar dificuldades: primeiro, para encontrar parceiros que compartilhem dos seus pensamentos sobre amor e sexo; depois, mesmo quando encontra alguém, porque você talvez se torne alvo da incompreensão de colegas de trabalho, vizinhos, familiares e amigos — e alguns deles não hesitarão em julgar suas opções, dedicando-lhe vocativos como "puta", "galinha", "vadia" etc. Mas, afinal, perguntam as autoras deste livro, qual o problema em ser promíscuo? Pautando-se por uma grande preocupação com o cuidado, o diálogo, a sinceridade e, claro, o consentimento das relações humanas, Ética do amor livre foi lançado em 1997 e ajudou muita gente a buscar o tipo de relacionamento que mais se aproxima dos próprios desejos e necessidades afetivas. Esta edição brasileira, atualizada pelas autoras e com texto de orelha da psicóloga Regina Navarro Lins, pode ser exatamente o que você estava precisando para compreender que os seres humanos desenvolveram múltiplas maneiras de se relacionar, e que a monogamia é apenas uma delas — e que não é nem melhor nem pior que todas as demais, desde que você possa escolher livremente o que deseja viver com a(s) pessoa(s) que ama.

Guia prático para poliamor, relacionamentos abertos e outras liberdades afetivas

Ética do amor livre

Girlfags are women who love, are attracted to and identify with gay men; they are a growing community edging their way into mainstream gender politics. These girlfags are not 'faghags', for while they enjoy the company of gay men, girlfags also enjoy them as bedmates and peers; indeed they may identify themselves as a gay man trapped in a woman's body, feeling a strong sense of sexual attraction to men.This memoir blasts through the binaries of gender and orientation and explores a fascinating sub-culture that is only just being exposed in mainstream culture.

Janet W. Hardy

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