Priya Basil

A meditation on the meaning and limits of hospitality today, from the shortlisted author of the Commonwealth Writers' Prize

Reflections on Food, Community and the Meaning of Generosity

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A thought-provoking meditation on food, family, identity, immigration, and, most of all, hospitality--at the table and beyond--that's part food memoir, part appeal for more authentic decency in our daily worlds, and in the world at large. Be My Guest is an utterly unique, deeply personal meditation on what it means to tend to others and to ourselves--and how the two things work hand in hand. Priya Basil explores how food--and the act of offering food to others--are used to express love and support. Weaving together stories from her own life with knowledge gleaned from her Sikh heritage; her years spent in Kenya, India, Britain, and Germany; and ideas from Derrida, Plato, Arendt, and Peter Singer, Basil focuses an unexpected and illuminating light on what it means to be both a host and a guest. Lively, wide-ranging, and impassioned, Be My Guest is a singular work, at once a deeply felt plea for a kinder, more welcoming world and a reminder that, fundamentally, we all have more in common than we imagine.

Reflections on Food, Community, and the Meaning of Generosity

Be My Guest

‘A brave and beautiful exploration into food, race, memory and the very meaning of life. I read it greedily - and so will you’ Meera Sodha, author of Fresh India The dinner table, among friends, is where the best conversations take place – talk about the world, religion, politics, culture, love and cooking. In the same way, Be My Guest is a conversation about all these things, mediated through the sharing of food. We live in a world where some have too much and others not enough, where migrants and refugees are both welcomed and vilified, and where most of us spend less and less time cooking and eating together. Priya Basil explores the meaning and limits of hospitality today, and in doing so she invites us to consider that how much we have in common may depend on what we are willing to share.

Riesci a immaginarti a una cena con il tuo fidanzato tedesco e tua madre indiana? Lei che cerca di rimpinzarlo, lui che cerca di rifiutare cortesemente e tu che cerchi di non scoppiare a ridere. E magari ti viene in mente quella volta in cui, da piccola, lei aveva preparato il suo piatto forte, il tuo piatto preferito – un kadhi di curry, coriandolo e peperoncino –, e tu ci sei rimasta male perché non potevi mangiartelo tutto tu e ti toccava condividerlo con gli ospiti. Oppure quella volta in cui hai tenuto banco al pranzo nel centro di accoglienza per migranti, riuscendo con l’aiuto di un manicaretto curdo a far dialogare culture lontanissime tra loro. Priya Basil ci racconta con ironia e schiettezza che cosa significa essere ospitali e come usare la condivisione del cibo per imparare a stare insieme, al di là di ogni differenza e diffidenza. Perché il cibo abita le nostre vite. Ci sfama, ci sostenta, ci appaga. E, se inatteso e bizzarro, può anche stupirci e spaesarci, proprio come chi non conosciamo: l’altro da noi, il forestiero che bussa alla nostra porta e ci chiede di entrare. Riusciamo a sorprenderci e insieme nutrirci dell’imprevisto? Può la comunione di un piatto diventare comunione di esistenze? Siamo capaci di offrire un posto accanto a noi allo straniero di cui non sappiamo nulla? In Elogio dell’ospitalità Priya Basil ci spinge a esprimere la nostra generosità, invitandoci a offrire e ricevere, condividere e accogliere senza riserve, per capire che solo nell’ospitalità incondizionata possiamo trovare il nostro senso di comunità. E vivere così in un mondo in cui ogni persona può sentirsi a casa, chiunque essa sia.

Elogio dell'ospitalità

'Take off your clothes I want to see you' Karam said.Just a few words, spoken like a caress made Sarna start wondering. Where did he learn such new and passionate techniques? When Sarna Singh leaves the lustrous green hills of Uganda for England, streets of cramped old houses were not what she was expecting. Husband Karam has been seduced by the historical feel of the city of London. Sarna, however, is convinced they have moved to England so he can visit his secret London lady friends. Sarna has a secret of her own, but she is adept at hiding it. She impresses her English teacher with her attempt at a cutglass accent, and copious gifts of delicious food. With two children to educate, money is scarce, and soon, she is devising weekly shoplifting expeditions to the supermarket. But all the while, Sarna is tormented by a mistake she made as a young woman in India. To stifle unwanted memories, she cooks zealously, sweetening her thoughts with syrup, or suffocating them with the hottest spice she can find. But when she receives an unexpected letter from back home, her assumed equilibrium is shattered to the skies. It carries an ultimatum she cannot ignore ... Set on an epic backdrop from Partition, the Coronation and Churchill's funeral, to the present day, Priya Basil explores with compassion, the universal complexities of vanity and love. Her sensuous portrayal of the trials and tribulations of the Singh family carries universal truths for all of us.

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It's a hot, crowded train. Helen Summers is on her way to see her sister Jill to tell her an awful secret. Another passenger, Kerm, is on his way back from his grandfather's funeral. They are strangers, jammed against each other in a crowded carriage. Noisy school kids fill the train - and three of them are about to cause a whole heap of trouble. In the chaos, Helen and Kerm are thrown together in a way they never expected. Catching a train? Read Strangers on the 16:02 and you'll never feel the same way about your fellow passengers again.

Strangers on the 16:02

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Aufgewachsen zwischen zwei Frauen – Mutter und Großmutter –, die gegensätzlicher nicht sein könnten, sucht Priya Basil ihre eigene feministische Stimme. Getrieben von der Vergangenheit, der Vielfalt der Positionen und einer außerordentlichen Erfahrung – der kollaborativen Übernahme eines Modemagazins durch 39 Frauen – beschreibt sie ihren Weg zu mehr Gerechtigkeit und Gleichheit. Brilliant verbindet Priya Basil Selbstverortung mit Philosophie und mitreißender Gesellschaftsanalyse. Und liefert mit Hilfe vieler Verbündeter eine Antwort auf die Frage: Was tun gegen die tief verwurzelte Abwertung von Frauen in unserer Sprache, Geschichte und Gesellschaft? Feministin werden, im Wir und Jetzt.

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