Sophie Lewis

What if we could do better than the family? We need to talk about the family. For those who are lucky, families can be filled with love and care, but for many they are sites of pain: from abandonment and neglect, to abuse and violence. Nobody is more likely to harm you than your family. Even in so-called happy families, the unpaid, unacknowledged work that it takes to raise children and care for each other is endless and exhausting. It could be otherwise: in this urgent, incisive polemic, leading feminist critic Sophie Lewis makes the case for family abolition. Abolish the Family traces the history of family abolitionist demands, beginning with nineteenth century utopian socialist and sex radical Charles Fourier, the Communist Manifesto and early-twentieth century Russian family abolitionist Alexandra Kollontai. Turning her attention to the 1960s, Lewis reminds us of the anti-family politics of radical feminists like Shulamith Firestone and the gay liberationists, a tradition she traces to the queer marxists bringing family abolition to the twenty-first century. This exhilarating essay looks at historic rightwing panic about Black families and the violent imposition of the family on indigenous communities, and insists: only by thinking beyond the family can we begin to imagine what might come after.

A Manifesto for Care and Liberation

Abolish the Family

Marcel Aymé

A collection of funny and fantastical short stories, The Man Who Walked through Walls (Le Passe-muraille), is a French classic.

The Man Who Walked Through Walls

Was, wenn die Familie nicht der einzige Ort ist, an dem man sich sicher, geliebt, umsorgt und akzeptiert fühlen kann? Sophie Lewis legt ein leidenschaftliches Plädoyer für kollektive Care-Arbeit vor.
Wer Glück hat, findet in der Familie Liebe und Fürsorge. Häufig ist sie jedoch Ursprung von Schmerz, Missbrauch und Gewalt. Selbst in so genannten »glücklichen« Familien ist das Zusammenleben harte Arbeit. In ihrem scharfsinnigen Essay »Die Familie abschaffen« fordert Sophie Lewis: Sowohl die Sorgenden als auch die Umsorgten haben Besseres verdient!
Von Plato über Marx bis zu queeren Theorien der Gegenwart – Lewis zeichnet die Geschichte von Ideen und Bewegungen nach, die unsere klassischen Familienkonzepte hinterfragt haben, und räumt mit Missverständnissen über die Abschaffung der Familie auf. Eine feministische Kritik des idealisierten Konzepts Familie und ein Plädoyer für kollektive Care-Arbeit, das zeigt: Nur wenn wir beginnen, über die Familie hinauszudenken, können wir uns ausmalen, was danach kommen könnte.
»Niemand bringt den Feminismus aktuell so radikal, so umwerfend brillant und couragiert auf den Punkt wie Sophie Lewis.« Eva von Redecker

Wie wir Care-Arbeit und Verwandtschaft neu erfinden

Die Familie abschaffen

The surrogacy industry is worth an estimated 1 billion dollars a year, and many of its surrogates work in terrible conditions, while many gestate babies for no pay at all. Should it be illegal to pay someone to gestate a baby for you? Full Surrogacy Now brings a fresh and unique perspective to the debate. Rather than making surrogacy illegal or allowing it to continue as is, Sophie Lewis argues we should be looking to radically transform it. Surrogates should be put front and center, and their rights to the babies they gestate should be expanded to acknowledge that they are more than mere vessels. In doing so we can break down our assumptions that children necessarily belong to those whose genetics they share. This might sound like a radical proposal but expanding our idea of who children belong to would be a good thing. Taking collective responsibility for children, rather than only caring for the ones we share DNA with, would radically transform notions of kinship. Adopting this expanded concept of surrogacy helps us to see that it always, as the saying goes, takes a village to raise a child.

Feminism Against Family

Full Surrogacy Now

Violette Leduc

"Thérèse and Isabelle is the tale of two boarding school girls in love. In 1966 when it was originally published in France, the text was censored because of its explicit depiction of young homosexuality. With this publication, the original, unexpurgated text--a stunning literary portrayal of female desire and sexuality--is available to a US audience for the first time. Included is an afterword by Michael Lucey, professor of French and comparative literature at the University of California, Berkeley"--

Therese and Isabelle

Trysting

In order to become ethically acceptable, surrogacy must change beyond recognition. But we need more surrogacy, not less! The surrogacy industry is worth an estimated 1 billion dollars a year, and many of its surrogates work in terrible conditions, while many gestate babies for no pay at all. Should it be illegal to pay someone to gestate a baby for you? Full Surrogacy Now brings a fresh and unique perspective to the debate. Rather than making surrogacy illegal or allowing it to continue as is, Sophie Lewis argues we should be looking to radically transform it. Surrogates should be put front and center, and their rights to the babies they gestate should be expanded to acknowledge that they are more than mere vessels. In doing so we can break down our assumptions that children necessarily belong to those whose genetics they share. This might sound like a radical proposal but expanding our idea of who children belong to would be a good thing. Taking collective responsibility for children, rather than only caring for the ones we share DNA with, would radically transform notions of kinship. Adopting this expanded concept of surrogacy helps us to see that it always, as the saying goes, takes a village to raise a child.

Sophie Lewis

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