All My Puny Sorrows
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All My Puny Sorrows

Miriam Toews2014
Miram Toews's All My Puny Sorrows - Sunday Times Top Choice Summer Read Elf and Yoli are two smart, loving sisters. Elf is a world-renowned pianist, glamorous, wealthy, happily married: she wants to die. Yoli is divorced, broke, sleeping with the wrong men: she desperately wants to keep her older sister alive. When Elf's latest suicide attempt leaves her hospitalised weeks before her highly anticipated world tour, Yoli is forced to confront the impossible question of whether it is better to let a loved one go. Miriam Toews's All My Puny Sorrows, at once tender and unquiet, offers a profound reflection on the limits of love, and the sometimes unimaginable challenges we experience when childhood becomes a new country of adult commitments and responsibilities. 'The novel she has written - so exquisitely that you'll want to savour every word - reads as if it has been wrenched from her heart.' Christina Patterson, Sunday Times '[Miriam Toews] has produced a masterly book of such precise dignity. It is, also against all the odds, at times a desperately humorous novel.' Daily Mail 'Toews takes her place alongside Alice Munro, Robertson Davies, Margaret Atwood and Mordicai Richler as the loveliest quintet of Canadian writing.' Los Angeles Times
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Grace Edwards@graceedwards
4 stars
Jun 2, 2024

4.5. SO sad but excellent. I didn’t realize that Miriam Toews wrote Women Talking but now I want to read it even more.

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Jeannette Ordas@kickpleat
4 stars
Jan 5, 2023

Such a well written and an engaging story about two sisters - plus, I loved the quirky force of a mother. I did find the first part of the book, when they were kids, so interesting and good that a few chapters later when it was a decidedly grown up book, I have to say I was a little disappointed.

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Stephanie Honour@stephonour
5 stars
Nov 4, 2022

Miriam's ability to infuse quirky light-heartedness into tragic situations is so refreshing; there's a great balance of gravity and humour in her writing that allows readers to digest the novel's often grim realities with the promise of a mischievous smirk peeking around every corner. And how much do I love its Canadian setting, Winnipeg and Toronto, two places my own life is occasionally set? Very much. Not to mention the book is thoroughly saturated with literary references, including Norwegian Wood, a complete anomaly of a read that I just completed! Miriam, we're kindred spirits.

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Melanie Richards@melanierichards
4 stars
May 14, 2022

Yoli's mom for president 2016

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margot colville@margotcolv
5 stars
Nov 27, 2021

beautifully, painfully human. the entire novel feels like sitting at a coffeeshop processing with a friend. beautiful thoughts written with beautiful words and syntax. there is at least one profound thought embedded in every single page without fail.

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Halsted Mencotti Bernard@cygnoir
4 stars
Sep 3, 2021

A devastating rumination on choosing to live, choosing to die, and who exactly owns these choices. Not an easy read but a necessary one.

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Liezel van der Walt @raven1
5 stars
Jul 16, 2023
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Jul 5, 2022
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