Stephen Chbosky

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Este livro reúne as cartas de Charlie, um adolescente de quem pouco se sabe - a não ser pelo que ele conta ao amigo nessas correspondências -, que vive entre a apatia e o entusiasmo, tateando territórios inexplorados, encurralado entre o desejo de viver a própria vida e ao mesmo tempo fugir dela. As dificuldades do ambiente escolar, as descobertas dos primeiros encontros amorosos, os dramas familiares, as festas alucinantes e a eterna vontade de se sentir 'infinito' ao lado dos amigos são temas que enchem de alegria e angústia a cabeça do protagonista em fase de amadurecimento.

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The Perks of Being a Wallflower

Romy

I just think it's bad when a boy looks at a girl and thinks that the way he sees the girl is better than the girl actually is.

And in that moment, I swear we were infinite.

Me when I struggle with being perceived :

I didn’t know that other people thought things about me. I didn’t know that they looked.

You see things. You keep quiet about them. And you understand.

It’s strange because sometimes, I read a book, and I think I am the people in the book.

These are small things, but they are so meaningful. This book is full of those small but meaningful things, this might be why it makes me sad but also very happy.

 "Don't ever say that about anyone again. Not even me."

Charlie, we accept the love we think we deserve.

And I wonder if anyone is really happy. I hope they are. I really hope they are.

This quote. It destroys me every time because Sam says Charlie is « too young » for her as they have a small 3 years difference and it’s respectable since he’s 15 and she’s 17 going on 18 (if I remember well) but it also shows that she respects him more than she does respect herself. She is always going out with older men, sometimes even grown ups, and those men always end up hurting her, treating her like shit and yet !!! they don’t have decency enough to tell her she’s « too young » for them, when she clearly is. I think this shows all the respect she already has for Charlie in the beginning.

You know you're too young for me, Charlie? You do know that?

He was the boy that made mix tapes with themes and hand-colored covers until he hit my sister and stopped crying.

It has no right being this heartbreaking.

My Aunt Helen was my favorite person in the whole world.

My sister is very pretty and mean to boys and she is in the middle.

camille

It suddenly dawned on me that if Michael were still around, Susan probably wouldn't be «going out» with him anymore. Not because she's a bad person or shallow or mean. But because things change. And friends leave. And life doesn't stop for anybody.

[...] I don't know how much longer I can keep going without a friend. I used to be able to do it very easily, but that was before I knew what having a friend was like. It's much easier not to know sometimes. [...]

I know I brought this all on myself. I know that I deserve this. I'd do anything not to be this way. I'd do anything to make it up to everyone. And to not have to see a psychiatrist, who explains to me about being «passive aggressive». [...]

I just wish that God or my parents or Sam or my sister or someone would just tell me what's wrong with me. Just tell me how to be different in a way that makes sense. [...]

Then, she held on to me a little tighter, and for the next half hour, Mary Elizabeth didn't talk at all. All I could do was lie there and think about how much her voice changed when she asked me if she was pretty, and how much she changed when I answered, and how Sam said she didn't like things like that and how much my arm was beginning to hurt.

And finally he found this really amazing song about this boy, and we all got quiet.

Sam tapped her hand on the steering wheel. Patrick held his hand outside the car and made air waves. And I just sat between them. After the song finished, I said something.

And Sam and Patrick looked at me like it was the greatest thing they ever heard. Because the song was that great and because we all really paid attention to it. Five minutes of a lifetime were truly spent, and we felt young in a good way.

Charlie struggles to cope with complex world of high school as he deals with the confusions of sex and love, the temptations of drugs, and the pain of losing a close friend and a favorite aunt.

Maelie Dolbec

Then, we looked at my mother and she was crying real soft and messy, so my brother and I each took one of her hands. She looked at us and smiled and cried harder. Then, we both rested our heads on her shoulders, like a sideways hug, which made her cry even harder. Or maybe it let her cry even harder. 

Charlie is a freshman. And while he's not the biggest geek in the school, he is by no means popular. Shy, introspective, intelligent beyond his years yet socially awkward, he is a wallflower, caught between trying to live his life and trying to run from it. Charlie is attempting to navigate his way through uncharted territory: the world of first dates and mixed tapes, family dramas and new friends; the world of sex, drugs, and The Rocky Horror Picture Show, when all one requires is that perfect song on that perfect drive to feel infinite. But Charlie can't stay on the sideline forever. Standing on the fringes of life offers a unique perspective. But there comes a time to see what it looks like from the dance floor.

The Perks of Being a Wallflower is a deeply affecting coming-of-age story that will spirit you back to those wild and poignant roller-coaster days known as growing up.

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“There's nothing like deep breaths after laughing that hard. Nothing in the world like a sore stomach for the right reasons.”

“So, this is my life. And I want you to know that I am both happy and sad and I'm still trying to figure out how that.”

Someone

ja’leasa

"They did it doggie-style with one of the sandwich bags!"

Him noticing things like that are forcing me to notice small details in my everyday too, it’s like he has no ignorance is bliss because he’s always paying attention and doing things for the sake of others 

All I could do was lie there and think about how much her voice changed when she asked me if she was pretty, and how much she changed when I answered, and how Sam said she didn't like things like that, and how much my arm was beginning to hurt.

It's so real and surprisingly relateable. Every single characters no matter how small the role feels so humane and feels like I know them personally.

kittie

This may take the place of my favorite book ever. It has so many amazing moments that just allow you to come to the conclusion that you are alive and real and changing. You can be the person that listens and understands and didnt try to sleep with that person even though you could. No matter your struggle every day you make it further you are alive and you are taking steps to win at the never ending game of life. So now I sit here and reflect while listening to landslide and hoping to one day feel infinite.

Jordyn

i loved it. absolutely loved the writing. i was literally absorbed for these 2 weeks as i would wait till school to get over to read it. plus my timing with the book is quite similar to events in the book, like friends leaving and all that (it's my last school year) so i personally found it very connecting to me. and the quotes, the songs and the books made it even more genuine to read. this is such a comfort read, i really loved this book so much, with all my heart, its definitely in my top 3 <33

elizabeth joseph

so sad so beautiful si perfevt i wish icoukd rate it higher than 5😔😔💔💔💔

gurlene 

maggie sweeney

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i wanna just lay down and cry, i love you so much charlie i swear.

Shy, introspective, intelligent beyond his years, caught between trying to live his life and trying to run from it, Charlie is attempting to navigate through the uncharted territory of high school. The world of first dates and mixed tapes, family dramas and new friends. The world of sex, drugs, and music - when all one requires to feel infinite is that perfect song on that perfect drive. Standing on the fringes of life Charlie has a unique perspective of the world around him, but there comes a time to stop being a wallflower and see what it looks like from the dance floor. This haunting novel about the dilemma of passivity vs. passion has become a modern classic. Charlie's letters are singular and unique, hilarious and devastating and through Charlie, Stephen Chbosky has created a deeply affecting story that will spirit you back to those wild and poignant roller coaster days known as growing up.

was skeptical, but this is an essential read for a young adult. not 5/5 just because of that thing at the end which didn't seem right to me, apart from that, phenomenal.

feels like a book that unties knots you never knew you had about growing up, being sensitive, anxious and feeling things just a bit too much. panic attack is represented here too which is nice.

it's like a hand holding yours while you walk through a field. but the field is about growing up and being conscious of things as you gain new perspectives and get older. charlie's thoughts overlap with yours and the reaffirmation is something i hardly find in a young adult book. his and your emotions got processed at the same time and you grow as he grows. it's like drinking warm milk.

feels like what radio silence was trying to be, or any coming-of-age book in general. this is the real stuff. 10000% recommend. 

was skeptical, but this is an essential read for a young adult. not 5/5 just because of that thing at the end which didn't seem right to me, apart from that, phenomenal.

feels like a book that unties knots you never knew you had about growing up, being sensitive, anxious and feeling things just a bit too much. panic attack is represented here too which is nice.

it's like a hand holding yours while you walk through a field. but the field is about growing up and being conscious of things as you gain new perspectives and get older. charlie's thoughts overlap with yours and the reaffirmation is something i hardly find in a young adult book. his and your emotions got processed at the same time and you grow as he grows. it's like drinking warm milk.

feels like what radio silence was trying to be, or any coming-of-age book in general. this is the real stuff. 10000% recommend. 

Miru

You wouldnt think the author is a noob.
GoodBook. GoodRead.

Anna 

Zamilovala jsem se do filmu a chtěla jsem se zamilovat i do knihy. Vážně jsem si to přála. Ale nejde to. Během čtení jsem začala o hodně věcech přemýšlet. A došla jsem k závěru, že Charlie musí trpět nějakou duševní poruchou, jelikož ve svých dopisech nepřemýšlel jako šestnáctiletý kluk. Vážně ne. Udělal si kamarády o tři roky starší než on sám. A jediné, co jeho kamarádi dělali, bylo to, že ho nořili do ještě větších sra*ek než ve kterých už byl. Nebyli to kamarádi.
Kniha se lehce dotýká témat jako je znásilnění, sexuální zneužívání, potrat, deprese a mnohem více.. Ale jak říkám, kniha se jich jen DOTÝKÁ. Není to tam rozebrané, autor si jen odškrtl důležité věci, které by v každé knize o střední škole měly být.
Přijde mi, že hrozně moc lidí romantizuje Charlieho nemoc a jeho vztah s kamarády, a já jsem to asi podle všeho dělala taky, když jsem viděla film.
Nevím, kniha takhle určitě byla napsaná schválně, ale prostě mi na tom vadí, že tam je tolik věcí nedořešených a nevyjasněných. Kdyby autor na konec knihy napsal nějaké vyjádření, třeba proč napsal tuto knihu, kdo je vlastně Charlie, proč se mu stalo to co se stalo, třeba bych byla moudřejší. Ale z tohodle fakt nevím, co si mám myslet.. A mrzí mě to.
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Na Instagramovém výběru mám sice 3,5*/5*, ale měním názor, protože bych se vážně měla naučit dávat taková hodnocení, jaká si podle mě knihy zaslouží.. Takže nakonec dávám 3*/5*

Everyone can relate to this book because it holds the aspects of growing up and the reality of living. Whether you’re a teenager and experiencing what you are reading or an adult reflecting on those times, let the nostalgia consume you.

Emily Burns

Absolutely gorgeous fictional memoir of a troubled teenage psyche.

Andrea Morales

“we accept the love we think we deserve.”

first reread!
a very quick and easy read but PACKED FULL with loveable characters, a great music selection, heart hitting moments and a character development that really resonated with me.

update: bumping this up to 5 stars, just watched the movie and oh my god was i SOBBING

Sosa Kuti 

Amazing. I really love this style of writing (in letters, that is), and it was extremely readable. However, the readability did not deter the focus of the story, nor did it make it any less powerful of a message. I don't really have many words to say right now-I'll probably update this review later. I recommend giving this a read, because to me it's very special, and very nice, and I liked it a lot. 

I would've liked more in-depth explorations, but due to the fact that all we really see are letters, it makes sense as to why things aren't really that descriptive. I also didn't like how Charlie suddenly went from not getting math, to getting perfect scores (petty because I related and then couldn't). 

But the book is still good, and it pairs well with the movie. Sort of like a supplement that gives more insight into our main character. I don't know, I enjoyed the book, but kind of hated some things. But then again, I'm picky and hate a lot of things. I found the story to be sweet though, because it's pretty neat to have two really close friends to feel infinite with.

lala

This is actually a *re-read* but that’s okay. To be completely honest I can’t get rid of the actors and actresses that portray the characters in the movie. Coming back to read the novel, I think the movie was perfect. I like how the novel is narrated in a series of letters written by Charlie to an unnamed friend. It gives it a more authentic edge. The story winds up slowly, but perfectly, it’s like reading a letter made for the readers. We can also see how Charlie’s trauma unfolds with how he explains his condition. It’s an easy and “flowy” read, and I can identify with Charlie at times, making me somehow both the friend he refers to and Charlie at the same time. I would still recommend you to read this book even if you’ve seen the film because it just *hits* different.

my head hurts while writing this so word vomit lang muna review ko + i wanna watch the movie aswell!!!!

“Charlie, we accept the love we think we deserve.”

this is the bookfied version of the phrase “because the world didn’t end at 17.” honestly gusto ko ulit i-reread kasi i feel like i missed so much details 😭

it was good though, sobrang nafeel ko si charlie sa part kung gaano siya kaobservant sa ibang tao and sa surroundings niya. and honestly the book really showed the reality of how even if you think some people have it worse or better, that doesn’t mean you should compare your situation to them kasi at the end of the day we all have different problems.

also shows the reality that people will take advantage of you, and that you’ll make mistakes, you’ll do things you regret, and it will still end up being okay. because we are all just young. and it will all pass.

what you’re going through does not define who you are. it will get better.

“Whatever happened to Charlie?” And I can tell you what happened to Charlie in three words…

initial rating 3.75/5

my head hurts while writing this so word vomit lang muna review ko + i wanna watch the movie aswell!!!!

“Charlie, we accept the love we think we deserve.”

this is the bookfied version of the phrase “because the world didn’t end at 17.” honestly gusto ko ulit i-reread kasi i feel like i missed so much details 😭

 

it was good though, sobrang nafeel ko si charlie sa part kung gaano siya kaobservant sa ibang tao and sa surroundings niya. and honestly the book really showed the reality of how even if you think some people have it worse or better, that doesn’t mean you should compare your situation to them kasi at the end of the day we all have different problems.

also shows the reality that people will take advantage of you, and that you’ll make mistakes, you’ll do things you regret, and it will still end up being okay. because we are all just young. and it will all pass.

what you’re going through does not define who you are. it will get better.

“Whatever happened to Charlie?” And I can tell you what happened to Charlie in three words…

He made it.

And so will you.

why do the letters end and start on the same page. 

melanie

Itzel

It was utterly amazing, incredible, it felt infinite.

There really aren't words to describe the perfection of this book. It felt so real.

The best thing about The Perks of Being a Wallflower is how relatable it is. At least for me, I don't think I'm that much of a wallflower, for I am much more outspoken than Charlie, but still, I could relate so much.

Like the ending, where Charlie is dealing with how all his friends will leave for college. At the time I read the book, it felt just like my own situation, only reversed.

The poem within the book is quite heartbreaking, too. 

Ahh, I really can't seem to say anything else than 'it was perfection.'

Monicap

Las cartas que escribe Charlie son íntimas y únicas, desternillantes y devastadoras. Puede que no sepamos dónde vive, ni a quién escribe pero, poco a poco, iremos conociendo su mundo a través de ellas: la vida en el instituto, las primeras citas, las cintas de varios, los dramas familiares y los nuevos amigos. Un mundo en el que solo es necesario dar con la canción perfecta mientras conduces para sentirte infinito--p. [4] of cover.

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Nicky

"Las cosas cambian y los amigos se van. Y la vida no se para por nadie"
Charlie es un adolescente que le escribe cartas a un desconocido, contado como es su vida después del suicidio de su mejor amigo. En ellas narra cómo es su familia, sus nuevos amigos, todo lo que le pasa a él y su vida de colegio. La película y el libro me dejaron llorando y es que en un momento me llegué a identificar con Charlie y es bonito ver cómo alguien que está solo va saliendo de poco a poco de su zona de confort. Es esa etapa de la niñez que luego pasas a la adolescencia, el experimentar, el amor, la familia; la amistad y la salud mental se vuelven más importantes en tu vida, porque te das cuenta de que no todo era inocencia y das ese golpe de realidad al enfrentarte a lo que realmente es. Mención honorífica al profesor Bill por regalarle libros y enseñarle a Charlie lo valioso que es. 
Yo también tuve a mi profesora que me adentro en el mundo de la lectura. Gracias a ella por demostrarle lo maravilloso que son los libros a esa niña de 10 años🥺

A coming of age novel about Charlie, a freshman in high school who is a wallflower, shy and introspective, and very intelligent. He deals with the usual teen problems, but also with the suicide of his best friend.

abby .˚｡⋆ ༊ .˚｡⋆

This book was short but sweet. and really really sad. I connected with Charlie so much and really felt for him. He was such a sweet & thoughtful character despite his troubles. I loved Patrick & Sam as well for being great friends to him throughout the book, even if they didn’t truly understand him at times, as well as his family.

Nick Truden

I can't help but think that this entire book almost sounds like my life right now. The only difference is the age gap between the main character and myself.

Oh well.

Rodrigo Figueiredo Severino

“But right now, these moments are not stories. This is happening. I am here, and I am looking at her. And she is so beautiful. I can see it. This one moment when you know you’re not a sad story. You are alive. And you stand up and see the lights on the buildings and everything that makes you wonder. And you’re listening to that song, and that drive with the people who you love most in this world. And in this moment, I swear, we are infinite.”

First off, screw the portuguese translation cuz it does not make the ending justice.
Second, I absolutely loved this. It explored so many themes and made every character feel like it had a purpose. And it was just a beautiful study of mental health and loneliness. Found myself relating way more then I thought and probably should to Charlie. Just love this.

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