Name: Nurtureshock
Rating: 4.055555555555555 (18 reviews)
ISBN: 9780446559416

Ashley Merryman

Bronson, Po

Nurtureshock

Kirby Drake

For the first time in many parenting books I've read, I felt a real connection to the stories and scenarios presented in this book. It represents exactly how my husband and I feel about many parenting faux pas. Thank you for this well researched, organized, and easily understood book!

Po Bronson

One of the most influential books about children ever published, NurtureShock offers a revolutionary new perspective on children that upends a library's worth of conventional wisdom. With impeccable storytelling and razor-sharp analysis, the authors demonstrate that many of modern society's strategies for nurturing children are in fact backfiring--because key twists in the science have been overlooked. Nothing like a parenting manual, NurtureShock gets to the core of how we grow, learn and live. Released in hardcover in September 2009, NurtureShock remained on the New York Times best seller list for three months, and was one of Amazon's best selling books for 2009. The book has become a worldwide phenomenon with editions published around the world - in fifteen languages, to date. In addition to Bronson and Merryman's writings on praise -- first made famous in New York magazine -- there are nine more equally groundbreaking chapters. Among the topics covered: Why the most brutal person in a child's life is often a sibling, and how a single aspect of their preschool-aged play can determine their relationship as adults. When is it too soon - or too late - to teach a child about race? Children in diverse schools are less likely to have a cross-racial friendship, not more - so is school diversity backfiring? Millions of families are fighting to get their kids into private schools and advanced programs as early as possible. But schools are missing the best kids, 73% of the time - the new neuroscience explains why. Why are kids - even those from the best of homes - still aggressive and cruel? The answer is found in a rethinking of parental conflict, discipline, television's unexpected influence, and social dominance. Parents are desperate to jump-start infants' language skills. Recently, scientists have discovered a series of natural techniques that are astonishing in their efficacy - it's not baby videos, sign language, or even the richness of language exposure. It's nothing you've heard before.

New Thinking About Children

NurtureShock

Danica Holdaway

Fascinating and necessary 

Like any millennial parent I’ve been victim to a thousand assumptions about raising children in this new, progressive, woke world. I absolutely loved learning that many of the common assumptions (about media consumption, exercise, lying) are much more complicated than they seem. This is an excellent and thought-provoking read for anyone who engages with children.

Stef Hite

John Manoogian III

Jacqueline Jordan 

KADY BURNS

Steven O'Toole

Alex Jones

Julie Berman

What if we told you... that dishonesty in children is a positive trait that arguing in front of your kids can make you a good role model and that if you praise your children you risk making them fail ...and it was all true? Using a cutting-edge combination of behavioural psychology and neuroscience, award-winning journalists Po Bronson and Ashley Merryman have produced an innovative, counter-intuitive read that will change the way we interact with our children forever. They demonstrate that for years our best intentions with children have been our worst ideas, using break-through scientific studies to prove that our instincts and received wisdom are all wrong. Nurtureshock is the Freakonomics of childhood and adolescence, exploring logic-defying insights into child development that have far-reaching relevance for us all.

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