Peter Gray

A developmental psychologist argues that children who are freed to follow their own interests through self-directed play will become better learners and achievers than the way they learn in modern school, which he says shows them that learning is work and not fun. 15,000 first printing.

Why Unleashing the Instinct to Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-reliant, and Better Students for Life

Free to Learn

Sarah Schumacher

If you read only one book on the importance of alternative schools, unschooling, or homeschooling, make it this one. If you have children, read this book.

It's easy to read, well organized and written, and very approachable, even if you don't have a strong interest in the topic (although, by the end, you might).

Quick note: I was surprised to see that he never mentioned the difference in kids personalities in regard to learning style, although it is slightly off topic. I believe different kids need a different style of parenting, and that should factor in to their education (a "free spirit" needing a bit more structure than a more organized child, for example). In the end it's like anything else - you have to do what works for you and your family, which usually involves a mashup of several different styles or systems.

A leading expert in childhood development makes the case for why self-directed learning -- "unschooling" -- is the best way to get kids to learn. In Free to Learn, developmental psychologist Peter Gray argues that in order to foster children who will thrive in today's constantly changing world, we must entrust them to steer their own learning and development. Drawing on evidence from anthropology, psychology, and history, he demonstrates that free play is the primary means by which children learn to control their lives, solve problems, get along with peers, and become emotionally resilient. A brave, counterintuitive proposal for freeing our children from the shackles of the curiosity-killing institution we call school, Free to Learn suggests that it's time to stop asking what's wrong with our children, and start asking what's wrong with the system. It shows how we can act -- both as parents and as members of society -- to improve children's lives and to promote their happiness and learning.

Free to Learn Why Unleashing the Instinct to Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-reliant, and Better Students for Life

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