How to Be Alone
Remarkable
Compelling
Honest

How to Be Alone If You Want To, and Even If You Don't

Lane Moore2018
The former Sex & Relationships Editor for Cosmopolitan and host of the wildly popular comedy show Tinder Live with Lane Moore presents her poignant, funny, and deeply moving first book. Lane Moore is a rare performer who is as impressive onstage—whether hosting her iconic show Tinder Live or being the enigmatic front woman of It Was Romance—as she is on the page, as both a former writer for The Onion and an award-winning sex and relationships editor for Cosmopolitan. But her story has had its obstacles, including being her own parent, living in her car as a teenager, and moving to New York City to pursue her dreams. Through it all, she looked to movies, TV, and music as the family and support systems she never had. From spending the holidays alone to having better “stranger luck” than with those closest to her to feeling like the last hopeless romantic on earth, Lane reveals her powerful and entertaining journey in all its candor, anxiety, and ultimate acceptance—with humor always her bolstering force and greatest gift. How to Be Alone is a must-read for anyone whose childhood still feels unresolved, who spends more time pretending to have friends online than feeling close to anyone in real life, who tries to have genuine, deep conversations in a roomful of people who would rather you not. Above all, it’s a book for anyone who desperately wants to feel less alone and a little more connected through reading her words.
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Amr Khater @khater
3 stars
Aug 31, 2022

I have so much mixed feelings about this book.

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Simran Armstrong@simcity
4.5 stars
Jan 10, 2022

This book is forever going to be a book that I take with me everywhere. Moore's writing style is hilarious and witty, and she writes about her life in a way that resonates with me. If you've ever felt like you are alone, or felt like family isn't what it was supposed to be, this book is for you.

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Chelsea White@itschelseaw
5 stars
Sep 26, 2021

This was heartbreaking, uplifting and inspiring. Moore has been through so much, but her desire to be vulnerable and let others in is so incredibly admirable. There were times when I was overwhelmed with emotion and the desire to hug my friends and dog. There were passages that left me breathless with how much I felt for Moore. I’d highly recommend this book, especially the audiobook since she narrates it.

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