Name: Normale mensen
Rating: 3.778201637107776 (3665 reviews)
ISBN: 9789026343445

Sally Rooney

Gerda G. Baardman

De relatie van een Ierse jongen met zijn klasgenote loopt anders dan zij had gehoopt omdat hij niet 100% voor haar kiest.

Normale mensen

Juliana

neya

kels

Chloe Heisserer

Julie

Madison

percy

nahomi

Sadie Hoffman

Darshini ✨

Mackenzie Shah

Pia 

maddie

Kylie Robinson

Maisha Prather

yearner.

Alina

beth

nidsy

Bekki

Somehow he was expressing more emotion than at any time in his life before, while simultaneously feeling less, feeling nothing. 

Abigail Mills

She felt she would do anything to make him like her, to make him say out loud that he liked her. 

Eliška Lhotská

She would have lain on the ground and let him walk over her body if he wanted, he knew that. 

No one can be independent of other people completely, so why not give up the attempt, she thought, go running in the other direction, depend on people for everything, allow them to depend on you, why not. She knows he loves her, she doesn't wonder about that anymore.

Life is the thing you bring with you inside your own head.

llikaditoo 

Syrina

She was attuned to the presence of his body in a microscopic way, as if the ordinary motion of his breathing was powerful enough to make her ill.

joy-lynn

He was really laughing then. Marianne, he said, I'm not a religious  person but I do sometimes think God made you for me.

rach

nica

It was culture as class performance, literature fetishised for its ability to take educated people on false emotional journeys, so that they might afterwards feel superior to the uneducated people whose emotional journeys they liked to read about.

Ezgi Hatipoğlu

kayla 

Marianne had the sense that her real life was happening somewhere very far away, happening without her, and she didn’t know if she would ever find out where it was and become part of it. She had that feeling in school often, but it wasn’t accompanied by any specific images of what the real life might look or feel like. All she knew was that when it started, she wouldn’t need to imagine it anymore.

Anna Cassmer Ling-Vannérus

If people appeared to behave pointlessly in grief, it was only because human life was pointless, and this was the truth that grief revealed. 

Shari Ilg

Laura Dobie

Sophia Bowers

sofia mae

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER * From the celebrated author of Conversations with Friends comes "a stunning novel about the transformative power of relationships" (People), hailed as "a masterpiece, pure and simple" (Minneapolis Star Tribune). "Among the vast cohort of new millennial novelists, none are connecting with readers as intimately, or generating as much excitement, as Sally Rooney."--Entertainment Weekly WINNER OF THE AN POST IRISH BOOK AWARD * WINNER OF THE COSTA NOVEL AWARD * LONGLISTED FOR: THE MAN BOOKER PRIZE * THE DYLAN THOMAS PRIZE * THE WOMEN'S PRIZE FOR FICTION * THE RATHBONES FOLIO PRIZE * THE KERRY GROUP IRISH NOVEL OF THE YEAR AWARD At school Connell and Marianne pretend not to know each other. He's popular and well-adjusted, star of the school football team, while she is lonely, proud, and intensely private. But when Connell comes to pick his mother up from her job at Marianne's house, a strange and indelible connection grows between the two teenagers--one they are determined to conceal. A year later, they're both studying at Trinity College in Dublin. Marianne has found her feet in a new social world while Connell hangs at the sidelines, shy and uncertain. Throughout their years at university, Marianne and Connell circle one another, straying toward other people and possibilities but always magnetically, irresistibly drawn back together. And as she veers into self-destruction and he begins to search for meaning elsewhere, each must confront how far they are willing to go to save the other. Sally Rooney brings her brilliant psychological acuity and perfectly spare prose to a story that explores the subtleties of class, the electricity of first love, and the complex entanglements of family and friendship. Praise for Normal People "[Rooney] has been hailed as the first great millennial novelist for her stories of love and late capitalism . . . [she writes] some of the best dialogue I've read."--The New Yorker "Arguably the buzziest novel of the season, Sally Rooney's elegant sophomore effort . . . is a worthy successor to Conversations With Friends. Here, again, she unflinchingly explores class dynamics and young love with wit and nuance."--The Wall Street Journal, "12 Best Books of Spring" "Keenly observed, deeply perceptive, and psychologically acute, Normal People brims with disarming insights into how men and women wrestle with sex, class, popularity, and young love."--Esquire, "Best Books to Read This Spring"

A Novel

Normal People

LeeSa Geelhood

I saw so many recommendations for this. I kept thinking it would get tolerable. Such a disappointment. I wish I hadn't finished it. 

soum

loved the writing hated the characters so so so fucking much wow they deserve to end up alone

michelle

“What they have now they can never have back again. But for her the pain of loneliness will be nothing to the pain that she used to feel, of being unworthy. He brought her goodness like a gift and now it belongs to her. Meanwhile his life opens out before him in all directions at once. They’ve done a lot of good for each other. Really, she thinks, really. People can really change one another. You should go, she says. I’ll always be here. You know that.”

Felix Micah

So when my friend (Goldfish) recommended this to me I went in thinking hmm romance book and boy was i shook. As a professional fumbler myself this book hits hard. But then it got worse but like realistic worse. I enjoyed it.

erin

it's just sex.... i love you i want to be with you.... i don't want to be with you.... i want to be with you again but i don't know what you want and i don't ask i just assume you don't want me.... i don't want to be with you.... let's have sex oh let's not do this right now.... i love you.... i cannot say what i mean so i created a huge misunderstanding between us and now i think you hate me..... i love you... i know you love me but we can't be together.... girl what. boring as hell.

Graciela Sangri Andrade 

I first came across Connell and Marianne’s story was through the TV show. I don’t know what it was, not even now, after finishing the book, but my soul felt lured to it. The complexity of their feelings, their ever-changing relationship, and how they’re affected by one another, made this book one of the most enjoyable reads in a while. I think I can relate to either of them. On one side, Connell’s hopelessness is something I’m all too familiar with. His life was always ruled by what people thought of him, his belief of not being enough and, consequently, by putting himself, his struggles and his talents, down. On the other hand, Marianne had a carefree attitude towards life. She didn’t go through it listening to all the white noise around her, but somehow she always felt empty, her body heavy and carcass like. It didn’t matter how people perceived her, there’s an unlovable quality to her, which she never gets to shake. At some point in the book, their pain became mine and I just had to keep going. There’s not much I can say but I will keep Normal People with me, forever.

OVER ONE MILLION COPIES SOLD THE NUMBER ONE SUNDAY TIMES AND TOP FIVE NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER THE BBC THREE ADAPTATION OF NORMAL PEOPLE WILL PREMIERE ON APRIL 26 WINNER OF THE COSTA NOVEL AWARD 2018 WINNER OF THE AN POST IRISH BOOK AWARDS NOVEL OF THE YEAR WINNER OF NOVEL OF THE YEAR AND BOOK OF THE YEAR AT THE BRITISH BOOK AWARDS WINNER OF THE SPECSAVERS NATIONAL BOOK AWARDS INTERNATIONAL AUTHOR OF THE YEAR LONGLISTED FOR THE MAN BOOKER PRIZE 2018 LONGLISTED FOR THE WOMEN'S PRIZE FOR FICTION 2019 Connell and Marianne grow up in the same small town in the west of Ireland, but the similarities end there. In school, Connell is popular and well-liked, while Marianne is a loner. But when the two strike up a conversation - awkward but electrifying - something life-changing begins. Normal People is a story of mutual fascination, friendship and love. It takes us from that first conversation to the years beyond, in the company of two people who try to stay apart but find they can't. 'The literary phenomenon of the decade.' - Guardian SHORTLISTED FOR THE IRISH NOVEL OF THE YEAR AWARD 2019 SHORTLISTED FOR THE RSL ENCORE PRIZE 2019 LONGLISTED FOR THE RATHBONES FOLIO PRIZE 2019

Didn't enjoy it at all, the storylines were flat and the whole book seemed unstructured and meaningless. 

The characters didn't appeal to me as nice or very deep, which surprised me since the book was so hyped. Disappointed.

Didn't enjoy it at all, the storylines were flat and the whole book seemed unstructured and meaningless. 

The characters didn't appeal to me as nice or very deep, which surprised me since the book was so hyped. Disappointed.

Joana Mae

I managed to finish the book, though by the halfway point I felt bored and was simply reading to complete it. The narrative has many glaring issues and lacks context throughout. While the story moves quickly with emotional ups and downs, it feels aimless. While I acknowledge this book has won many awards and adapted for a TV series, I don't understand the hype—it simply isn't for me.

Vale Ferrer

I read Normal People after finishing Conversations with Friends, and even though my expectations were already incredibly high because of how much I loved that book, Normal People somehow managed to affect me even more. I couldn’t help but feel deeply identified with Marianne in so many ways, which made it almost impossible to put the book down. I constantly wanted to know more, and I could never finish a chapter without immediately needing to continue reading. What impacted me the most was the communication, or rather, the lack of communication, between the main characters. It genuinely made me want to sit down and write about how essential communication is in human relationships and how much damage silence and assumptions can cause. This book made me fall in love with the characters while simultaneously breaking my heart. By the end, I was left wanting even more from them and their story. Without a doubt, this became one of my favorite books and climbed incredibly high in my personal ranking. I’d recommend it to absolutely everyone.

Normalni ludzie

Dalia

Boże ja nie wiem czemu Barack Obama kocha tą książke Bo w niej przede wszystkim było o: toksycznych relacjach , depresji , wykorzystywaniu się , patrzeie na siebie w najgorszym świetle Ogólnie książka po której macie ochotę wyskoczyć z okna Nie wiem na jakiej podstawie ona ma nam pomóc czy otworzyć oczy ale ja po niej pierwsze co to otworzyłam okno bo potrzebowałam świeżego powietrza. Jedynie co to może pokazać z czym borykają sie ludzie , ale żeby ona była chociaż dobrze napisana to nie liczcie na to :/

- i definitely see the appeal of sally rooney as a writer now. she has such a solid grasp on what it means to be young and unsure, but also hungry and full of desire. so many of her characters are desperate to receive validation, acceptance.... some kind of message to know they are loved despite their abnormalities. all her characters experience such traumatic inner worlds, yet by the time the book is over you feel so.... safe? comforted? loved?

- that being said, i have dramatically conflicted feelings for normal people. the whole experience was just.... painful, and exhausting. there is so much trauma and sadness packed into this little novel that i did not see coming, and it wasn’t until the VERY end where you are pulled back up from underwater. it’s emotionally draining and stressful at every moment it finds the opportunity to be so, and it brought out such extreme feelings of frustration, emptiness, and sheer terror that i closed the book unsure on if i actually enjoyed the experience or not

- connell was a monumental piece of shit and made me want to pull my hair out in nearly every chapter. marianne, the poor girl, deserves the whole world. some of the later chapters where she just shrinks into herself were unbearable, it was just cruel

- idk.... very unsure how i feel. i’ll definitely write an updated review in a couple months. truthfully, though, the first half (maybe two thirds) of the novel were filled with very negative feelings

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- i definitely see the appeal of sally rooney as a writer now. she has such a solid grasp on what it means to be young and unsure, but also hungry and full of desire. so many of her characters are desperate to receive validation, acceptance.... some kind of message to know they are loved despite their abnormalities. all her characters experience such traumatic inner worlds, yet by the time the book is over you feel so.... safe? comforted? loved?

- that being said, i have dramatically conflicted feelings for normal people. the whole experience was just.... painful, and exhausting. there is so much trauma and sadness packed into this little novel that i did not see coming, and it wasn’t until the VERY end where you are pulled back up from underwater. it’s emotionally draining and stressful at every moment it finds the opportunity to be so, and it brought out such extreme feelings of frustration, emptiness, and sheer terror that i closed the book unsure on if i actually enjoyed the experience or not

- connell was a monumental piece of shit and made me want to pull my hair out in nearly every chapter. marianne, the poor girl, deserves the whole world. some of the later chapters where she just shrinks into herself were unbearable, it was just cruel

- idk.... very unsure how i feel. i’ll definitely write an updated review in a couple months. truthfully, though, the first half (maybe two thirds) of the novel were filled with very negative feelings

it’s difficult for me to say whether this is a good book or a bad one. it felt very layered, yet very flat at the same time somehow. kinda matter-of-factly. this is this and that is that. i guess that’s her style and maybe i’m just not the target audience. i liked when she included her/her characters political views or that whole dilemma about classes and power and capitalism and how we are kind of helpless against it. i wished there was more of that, especially throughout the middle/main part of the book, because i liked the beginning and i somewhat liked the ending but that middle part seemed to be just sex and parties and drunkenness and mess, which i would have been okay with had it not seemed a bit pointless (?) i honestly don’t know. also potentially should have looked up trigger warnings beforehand but that’s on me

jana 

i wanted to like it so bad, but it comes of as erratic and i did not like the ending

kate 

It was both very vexing and interesting at the same time

maderinn⟢

I'm having a difficult time properly rating this book because I had a hard time putting it down while reading, but ultimately felt disappointed with it as a whole. 

The best aspect of the book to me is the dialogue between characters. It's smart, honest, and feels moderately realistic. The dialogue is what hooked me and kept me turning pages well past what I intended each reading session.

Some may find themselves frustrated by both Connell and Marianne's inability to grow as individuals. We are introduced to them when they are in high school and finish with them as young adults figuring out what the future holds for them post-university. From beginning to end, they still have the same communication problems, the same character flaws, and the same attachment to each other. Every time you think, "maybe they've learned now, they'll be good this time", they revert right back to their old ways and mess things up for each other all over again. Personally, I found this to be a realistic and relatable representation of young adulthood and didn't mind the choice, but it is insanely frustrating to read at times.

What I really didn't like was how little depth there is to the characters. We are outright told things about Connell and Marianne that absolutely contribute to who they are as characters, but we never really get to explore any of those subjects because the focus always remains on Connell and Marianne's relationship with each other. Every major character revelation is quickly brushed aside and hardly acknowledged again. These characters have trauma, but the trauma is never addressed, which I do think can serve as an explanation for the previously mentioned lack of growth. That might also just be another realistic feature of the book. 

Ultimately, "Normal People" is an incredibly entertaining read that has some beautiful moments in it. That alone makes it worth enjoying to me.

Bryce Widdel

I'm having a difficult time properly rating this book because I had a hard time putting it down while reading, but ultimately felt disappointed with it as a whole. 

The best aspect of the book to me is the dialogue between characters. It's smart, honest, and feels moderately realistic. The dialogue is what hooked me and kept me turning pages well past what I intended each reading session.

Some may find themselves frustrated by both Connell and Marianne's inability to grow as individuals. We are introduced to them when they are in high school and finish with them as young adults figuring out what the future holds for them post-university. From beginning to end, they still have the same communication problems, the same character flaws, and the same attachment to each other. Every time you think, "maybe they've learned now, they'll be good this time", they revert right back to their old ways and mess things up for each other all over again. Personally, I found this to be a realistic and relatable representation of young adulthood and didn't mind the choice, but it is insanely frustrating to read at times.

What I really didn't like was how little depth there is to the characters. We are outright told things about Connell and Marianne that absolutely contribute to who they are as characters, but we never really get to explore any of those subjects because the focus always remains on Connell and Marianne's relationship with each other. Every major character revelation is quickly brushed aside and hardly acknowledged again. These characters have trauma, but the trauma is never addressed, which I do think can serve as an explanation for the previously mentioned lack of growth. That might also just be another realistic feature of the book. 

Ultimately, "Normal People" is an incredibly entertaining read that has some beautiful moments in it. That alone makes it worth enjoying to me.

finished in one sitting, safe to say it whisks you away.

Alanna Rieser

Za izbingeat i plakat, 13 reasons why vibe

Eva Cace

An emotional journey for sure. I feel like I understand a younger version of myself better and can see my current self better after reading it. The words unspoken between two people so clearly in love because the fear of losing that person is so crippling is all too relatable. I feel for both Marianne and Connell on such a deep level I just wish they weren’t cowards and embraced love. It’s so scary even terrifying but there’s also something so safe in having your person. 

Joe Ricupero

so this is just an irish version of The Age of Innocence by Edith Wharton? (because you think it’s a love story, which it is, but still covers things like class and gender) i think for a 2018 book it eats but reading this in 2025 makes it a bit paler than i thought it would be. i also really didn’t want to read this because a main trope is miscommunication, but it’s not as bad as i thought it would be. i do love the writing style though, always have a soft spot for the gentle and mundane against some terrible shi happening

Ianna Chia

sadly i eat this up like i couldn’t put the book down i think this is one of the very few books that have gone viral on booktok and i actually get the hype. such an easy read

nina 

Teenagers Connell and Marianne pretend not to know each other. He's popular and well-adjusted, star of the school football team, while she is lonely, proud and intensely private. But when Connell comes to pick his mother up from her job at Marianne's house, a strange and indelible connection grows between the two teenagers - one they are determined to conceal. A year later, they're both studying at Trinity College in Dublin. Marianne has found her feet in a new social world, while Connell hangs on the sidelines, shy and uncertain. Throughout their time at university, Marianne and Connell circle one another, straying toward other people and possibilities. And as she veers into self-destruction and he begins to search for meaning elsewhere, each must confront how far they are willing to go to save the other...

normal people by sally rooney is a novel that, while having a good plot, can be a bit challenging to read because of the author’s writing style—especially the dialogues, which don’t use quotation marks when the characters are talking to each other. the story mainly revolves around marianne and connell’s on-and-off relationship, with a heavy focus on their sex life, which at times overshadows other aspects of their characters. it would have been more compelling if the narrative dug deeper into marianne’s troubled family and the abuse she experiences, as well as connell’s way of thinking and the reasons behind his struggles. i do love how the book ends openly, leaving readers to choose their own version of how their story continues, but it also really frustrates me that this was the ending after everything they went through. despite these mixed feelings, the book still offers an honest portrayal of intimacy, miscommunication, and the messiness of young love.

in my opinion the ultimate sally rooney book. i have not read the new one and based on my review of the first one you might think normal people would not be up my alley. but it precisely is. it evokes raw emotion in a way most books don't. it is also the only time a sally rooney book does not suffer from prolonged political commentaries disguised as mere conversations. the way the characters connect and interact is so captivating

Vincent Osvald

Normale Menschen

Ich habe gedacht, dass ich dieses Buch nicht mögen würde, doch es hat mich positiv überrascht und emotional so sehr mitgenommen, wie ich es niemals erwartet hätte.

Ich habe dieses Buch während meiner Rom Reise gelesen und ich denke, dass das ebenfalls einen Einfluss darauf hatte, wie ich dem Buch gegenüber empfinde.

Diese Geschichte ist keine Love Story und zum allerersten Mal geht es in einem Buch meiner Meinung nach nicht zentral um die romantische Beziehung zwischen den beiden Protagonisten, sondern um eine tiefe Freundschaft, eine Verbundenheit und Vertrautheit, wie ich sie so noch nie gelesen habe. Dieses Buch hat in mir so starke Gefühle ausgelöst, mich zum Weinen gebracht, und jedes Mal, wenn ich es in den Händen halte, werde ich von den Emotionen überschwemmt, die ich beim Lesen empfunden habe. Sally Rooney konnte all das in einem Leser/Leserin auslösen und dabei einen Schreibstil verwenden, der sehr nüchtern und einfach ist. How?!

Das Buch behandelt wichtige Themen wie den Kampf gegen Minderwertigkeitsgefühle, Depression, gesellschaftlichen Rang sowie Freundschaft, Liebe und Zugehörigkeit.

Ich werde Connell und Marianne wahrscheinlich nicht so schnell vergessen können.

Zainab 

Ich habe gedacht, dass ich dieses Buch nicht mögen würde, doch es hat mich positiv überrascht und emotional so sehr mitgenommen, wie ich es niemals erwartet hätte.

Ich habe dieses Buch während meiner Rom Reise gelesen und ich denke, dass das ebenfalls einen Einfluss darauf hatte, wie ich dem Buch gegenüber empfinde.

Diese Geschichte ist keine Love Story und zum allerersten Mal geht es in einem Buch meiner Meinung nach nicht zentral um die romantische Beziehung zwischen den beiden Protagonisten, sondern um eine tiefe Freundschaft, eine Verbundenheit und Vertrautheit, wie ich sie so noch nie gelesen habe. Dieses Buch hat in mir so starke Gefühle ausgelöst, mich zum Weinen gebracht, und jedes Mal, wenn ich es in den Händen halte, werde ich von den Emotionen überschwemmt, die ich beim Lesen empfunden habe. Sally Rooney konnte all das in einem Leser/Leserin auslösen und dabei einen Schreibstil verwenden, der sehr nüchtern und einfach ist. How?!

Das Buch behandelt wichtige Themen wie den Kampf gegen Minderwertigkeitsgefühle, Depression, gesellschaftlichen Rang sowie Freundschaft, Liebe und Zugehörigkeit.

Ich werde Connell und Marianne wahrscheinlich nicht so schnell vergessen können.

sometimes you love people so intensely, it changes you ! 

anyway the missed communication huRt me physically at times here,, simply put:: if situationship intense,, how not real relationship??? 

Nat Wong

sometimes you love people so intensely, it changes you ! 

anyway the missed communication huRt me physically at times here,, simply put:: if situationship intense,, how not real relationship??? 

Normale mensen

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