
Redefining Realness My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More
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This is a must read.

Janet Mock’s memoir is so damn necessary. She pours her heart and life, her pain and sorrow and happiness and joy into every page and it is equal parts beautiful and brilliant. Her journey becoming who she had always been is a story that is not heard enough and should be. We need more trans stories; this memoir is a testament to how powerful telling our stories can be.

trigger warnings for: self-harm (chapter 1), pedophilia / assault / child molestation (ch 2 & 3), alcohol, drugs & addiction (ch 4, 11), emet (ch 4), shooting (ch 5), mentions of death (ch 5), homophobia, racism, transphobia, gender dysphoria

I find it so hard to review memoirs because I feel like I'm rating the person's life or journey, and I am in no position to do that. I recently watched The Out List on Netflix, and was intrigued by the fact I had hardly heard of Janet Mock, much less knew anything about her. So I decided I owed it to her to read her book and story. And what a story it is. It took me awhile to get into it, but it made me think and realise how easy a life I've had being cis, and that I can't even begin to comprehend what trans people have gone through their entire lives. This book really made me open my eyes and forced me to recognise the struggles others have gone through and the sacrifices they've had to make.

What a book. It is beautifully written (and read by the author in the audiobook version) and 110% worth the read. The content is at times dark and potentially triggering but if you can, I would pick this up and read it. It is such an important story.


















