Name: Bad Feminist [Tenth Anniversary Edition]
ISBN: 9780063384804

Roxane Gay

Essays

Bad Feminist [Tenth Anniversary Edition]

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For whatever reason, we hold feminism to an unreasonable standard where the movement must be everything we want and must always make the best choices. When feminism falls short of our expectations, we decide the problem is with feminism rather than with the flawed people who act in the name of the movement.

Even from a young age I understood that when a girl is unlikable, a girl is a problem. I also understood that I wasn't being intentionally mean. I was being honest (admittedly, without tact), and I was being human. It is either a blessing or a curse that those are rarely likable qualities in a woman.

We live in a culture that is overly permissive where rape is concerned. While there are certainly many people who understand rape and the damage of rape, we also live in a time that necessitates the phrase "rape culture." This phrase denotes a culture where we are inundated, in different ways, by the idea that male aggression and violence toward women is acceptable and often inevitable. 

Difficult to read because of the sensitive topics being written about. But important conversations to be had and learn from here in this book.

Bad Feminist [Tenth Anniversary Edition] Essays