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The Courage to Be Disliked

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FILOZOF: Osoba se oseća ovako zato što je u nekom trenutku odlučila u sebi: Zelim da okončam ovu vezu, i od tada traži razloge da to ura- di. Druga osoba se uopšte nije promenila. Ono što se promenilo jeste

FILOZOF: U učenjima judaizma možemo naći rečenice poput ako ne živiš sam svoj život, ko će ga živeti umesto tebe? Ti živiš samo svoj život. Kada dodemo do pitanja za koga ga živiš, odge- vor je naravno za sebe. U tom slučaju, ako ne živiš sam svoj život, ko bi mogao to da uradi umesto tebe? Uostalom, svi mi živimo svoj život misleći na „ja". Ne postoji razlog zbog kog ne bismo smeli da mislimo tako. 

 šta drugi ljudi misle kada vide tvoje lice - to je zadatak tih drugih ljudi, nije nešto nad čim ti imaš bilo kakvu kontrolu.

FILOZOF: Nemati ciljeve ili snove je u redu. Ziveti iskreno svoje ovde i sada samo po sebi je ples. Covek ne bi smeo da shvata sebe suviše ozbiljno. Molim te, nemoj da mešaš pojmove iskrenoi suviše ozbiljno.

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One is running away from one's life tasks by saying that everything is the fault of other people, or the fault of one's environment. 

'It's not what one is born with, but what use one makes of that equipment.

 You are worried about being judged h other people. 1 hat is why you are constantly craving recognition from others. Now, why are you worried about other people looking at vOu, anyway? Adlerian psychology has an easy answer. You haven't done the separation of tasks yet. 

What other people think when they see your face - that is the task of other people and not something you can control

Children who have not been taught to confront challenges will try to avoid all challenges.

 When one is not following through with one's tasks, .not because one is without ability. Adlerian psychology tells us that the issue here is not because one is without ability, but simply that 'one has lost the courage to face one's tasks' And, if that is the case, the thing to do before anything else is to recover that lost courage.

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