Miguel Ruiz

Janet Mills

Don Jose Ruiz

Complementing the four agreements that help alleviate needless self-inflicted suffering, outlines the fifth agreement, which allows readers to deeply examine their awareness of the power of the self.

A Practical Guide to Self-Mastery

The Fifth Agreement

Christina Farkona

Even the worst thing that can happen to you is meant to happen because it’s going to push you to grow.

Be responsible for every choice you make in your life. This is your life; it’s nobody else’s life, and you will find that it’s nobody else’s business what you do with your life.

You can relearn how to love yourself by accepting yourself, unconditionally.

Making assumptions and then taking them personally is the beginning of hell in this world. Almost all of our conflicts are based on this, and it’s easy to understand why. Assumptions are nothing more than lies that we are telling ourselves. This creates a big drama for nothing, because we don’t really know if something is true or not. Making assumptions is just looking for drama when there’s no drama happening. And if drama is happening in someone else’s story, so what? It’s not your story; it’s someone else’s story.

Whatever people think of you is really about the 

 they have of you, and that image isn’t you.

Is it really true that you are not beautiful? Is it 

 true that you’re not perfect just the way you are?

Can you see all the judgments that you have about yourself? Every judgment is just an opinion —it’s just a point of view— and that point of view wasn’t there when you were born. Everything you think about yourself, everything you believe about yourself, is because you learned it. You learned the opinions from Mom, Dad, siblings, and society. They sent all those images of how a body 

 look; they expressed all those opinions about the way you are, the way you are not, the way you should be. They delivered a message, and you agreed with that message. And now you think so many things about what you are, but are they the truth?

You see, the problem is not really knowledge; the problem is believing in a 

 of knowledge — and that is what we call a 

. What is the truth, and what is the lie? What is real, and what is virtual? Can you see the difference, or do you believe that voice in your head every time it speaks and distorts the truth while assuring you that what you believe is the way things really are? Is it 

 true that you’re not a good human, and that you’ll never be good enough? Is it 

 true that you don’t deserve to be happy? Is it 

We want our freedom; we want to be ourselves, but we are also afraid to be by ourselves.

After domestication, we try to be good enough for everybody else, but we are no longer good enough for ourselves, because we can never live up to our image of perfection.

The result of practicing the fifth agreement is the complete acceptance of yourself just the way you are, and the complete acceptance of everybody else just the way they are. The reward is your eternal happiness.

this book undoubtedly holds very important knowledge but most of it is just an endless repetition of the first book 

which is very annoying. i’d say there’s no need to read the first book at all, if you’re about to read this one.

this book undoubtedly holds very important knowledge but most of it is just an endless repetition of the first book The Four Agreements, which is very annoying. i’d say there’s no need to read the first book at all, if you’re about to read this one.

The Fifth Agreement A Practical Guide to Self-Mastery

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