Timothy Keller

A scripturally based guide to achieving happiness in marriage outlines the institution according to God's principles while sharing frank insights into the challenges posed to typical couples, drawing on biblical teachings to counsel marital partners on how to work through problems while retaining their faith. Simultaneous.

Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God

The Meaning of Marriage

In previous books respected New York pastor and bestselling author Timothy Keller has looked at such diverse and topical subjects as the existence of God, our need to do justice, the meaning of Jesus' life, and the human temptation to make idols - all through the twin lenses of a biblical framework and an engagement with contemporary culture. In this new book, co-authored with his wife, Kathy, he turns his attention to that most complex of matters: our need for love, and its expression in marriage. Beginning with the biblical narrative, and its pictures of marriage that span the original ideal to the broken to the redemptive, he looks at themes of friendship and commitment; the completion of men and women in each other; singleness, sex and divorce; and ministry and discipleship within the context of marriage. This is a profound and engaging work that will challenge and inspire people in all stages of life - single, newlywed and married.

Facing the Complexities of Marriage with the Wisdom of God

Serah

So insightful and thought-provoking! Definitely not just another platitudinous self-help book.  

Amelia Macy

charisa

"When you see the problems in each other, do you just want to run away, or do you find a desire to work on them together? If the second impulse is yours, then you have the makings of a marriage. Do you obsess over your partner's external shortcomings, or can you see the beauty within, and do you want to see it increasingly released? Then move forward. The power of truth that marriage has should hold no fear for you." 

with full honesty, i went into this book skeptically. i mean, big memes, right. but instead, i found quite a lot of practical wisdom about what composes a truly Gospel-centered marriage. i wish i had read this at a younger age, but i can only be thankful to glean anything now. imagine upholding marriage as an utmost friendship, a partnership that both furthers and appreciates the other's pursuit of Christ! oh, to be in love with the work God is doing in the other person (and to be intimately involved in it!). i've decided that is what i would want most. 

keller also had some hard-hitting commentary on singleness, some of which i had never thought about before. in short: God is good through every season; there is no "explanation" for singleness, or conditions that necessarily justify it. the Lord is sovereign through it all. 

thanks timmy. i am grateful.

Rick Dobrowolski

I have read a lot of books on marriage - over 50 but probably less than 100. This one is the best and most comprehensive book that I have read on the marriage relationship. My wife and I read through it together, and it led to great conversations and thoughtful reflection.

It has become my default book to give to couples on their wedding day, so, invite me to your wedding and you might get a free copy.

Skye Sherman

Finally finished reading this book together! A good comprehensive look over the Christian institution of marriage and why we’re committed to it (and each other). A nice bonding activity and a reminder of the beauty and challenges inherent in this journey. :)

Emily S

A powerful yet completely accessible book on love and singleness and the theology of the marriage covenant

Kathy Louise Keller

Describes what marriage should be according to the Bible, arguing that marriage is a tool to bring individuals closer to God, and provides meaningful instruction on how to have a successful marriage.

The Meaning of Marriage Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God

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