They Both Die at the End
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They Both Die at the End

Adam Silvera2017
In a near-future New York City where a service alerts people on the day they will die, teenagers Mateo Torrez and Rufus Emeterio meet using the Last Friend app and are faced with the challenge of living a lifetime on their End Day.
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catto fishu@catfish-lo
3.5 stars
Feb 21, 2025

The story flows like a breeze, I enjoyed it from start to finish. I'm not really affected with the emotional scene; it's too fast paced to make me care about the characters, let alone their relationship. But overall, a fun book.

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mulan zhu@muuuuulan
5 stars
Feb 16, 2025

beautiful... tells the story of youth, queer love, and living with grief in a very lovely way

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yna@yna
4.5 stars
Jan 24, 2025

made me bawl my eyes wtf

+3
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Mati@matinolee
4.5 stars
Jan 14, 2025

it feels forced the way rufus randomly inserts “mad” or “yo” or “legit” but maybe that’s normal

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Ashley Denktas@foxface

I'm not going to add a review but I got about 2-3.5 hours into the audiobook and I just had to return it. It felt like the characters just kept repeating the same things. I heard good things about this book so maybe i needed to get further but after reading that long and the characters just repeating "oh no I'm going to die today" without doing anything to live just was a bit boring.

I think the concept of the book was interesting but it was a bit too slow for my liking.

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Kayla Pham@okay_reads
4.5 stars
Dec 2, 2024

It was a heartfelt journey and brought a tear to my eye. Really gets you in your feels for some parts of the book. A good read for those that want a reminder about life.

+5
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Tali ⋆.˚🦋༘⋆@cuntscapade

Rating: ★★★★★

"They Both Die at the End" by Adam Silvera is a profoundly moving and heartbreaking novel that left me emotionally shattered. Despite the foreboding title, the unexpected impact of the characters' fate hit me with an overwhelming wave of sadness.

Plot Analysis

“I would’ve loved you if we had more time.” The plot of "They Both Die at the End" revolves around the fleeting lives of Mateo and Rufus, and their short-lived (pun intended) love story which unfolds over the course of a few hours. Despite the brevity of their time together, their connection feels deep and profound. Adam Silvera expertly captures their chemistry and the sense that they have known each other for much longer. Mateo and Rufus love and the tragic inevitability of their fate left me yearning for more time for them, highlighting the cruel irony of their circumstances.

Character Analysis


Mateo

Mateo, one of the protagonists, is absolutely my personal favorite. He's portrayed as an astonishingly sweet and kind-hearted boy. I couldn't help but feel a deep connection to him, wanting to protect him and encourage him to seize the opportunities he's going to miss with death knocking on his door. His vulnerability and longing for experiences resonated deeply with me.


Rufus

Rufus was a polar opposite to Mateo in terms of personality. He brought a different dynamic to the story. While I found his speech patterns, particularly his frequent use of "mad," very repetitive and even annoying at times, I appreciated the contrast it provided to his tough exterior. Despite their differences, Mateo and Rufus complemented each other beautifully. They created a love story that was both tender and bittersweet.


Aimee

Aimee's presence in the story added a sense of danger for Rufus because of Peck. But also because she broke his heart. Her character felt like a ticking time bomb — I feel like she was way more aggressive than Rufus was letting on.


"Peck"

Peck was a character I disliked most, rightfully so. I wanted him hto get a call from Death-Cast next. His actions and behavior left me frustrated, and I was dying for consequences to catch up with him.


The Plutos (Malcolm & Tagoe)

The Plutos, particularly Malcolm, brought a touch of sweetness to the narrative. Their endearing nature and the role they played in Rufus and Mateo's story added a sense of warmth amidst the impending tragedy.


Conclusion In conclusion, "They Both Die at the End" beautifully delves into themes of love, loss, and the importance of seizing the moment. Adam Silvera's portrayal of characters like Mateo and Rufus evokes a rollercoaster of emotions, leaving a lasting impact on you as a reader.

+5
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dezzy@dezz2022
5 stars
Aug 15, 2024

Im crying. That was such a beautiful and heart-warm/heartbreaking book. I'm feeling so many emotions.

+3
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elinabel hidalgo @cookiejar
2 stars
Aug 3, 2024

It's like Romeo and Juliet, but instead of poison, they get an exploding apartment. How romantic!

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Gina-Sophie Franz@ginasf
4.5 stars
Jul 28, 2024

It was kind of predictable but it was worth the read.

+4
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Sofia @sofia312
5 stars
Jul 21, 2024

Ich hab die Bedeutung hinter dem Buch verstanden, ich fand sie auch echt süß. Als sie gestorben sind, musste ich tatsächlich bisschen weinen, weil es so herzzerreißend war. Ich empfehle das Buch an Beziehungen, die meistens nicht die Zeit mit deren Partner*in schätzen. Das ist ein recht lehrreiches Buch für‘s Leben, der Titel; Am Ende sterben wir sowieso, sagt schon einiges aus.

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Ada@adasel
2 stars
Jul 16, 2024

(2.5) I am DNFing this as I can not finish this book. It is very very boring with the conversations unnatural and often times cringy. It had lovely messages and a nice concept but failed to convince me and make it into an emotional rollercoaster. Oops!

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Anna @ann_omalia
5 stars
Jul 13, 2024

Nahlédnout do posledního dne dvou náhodných kluků byl větší zážitek, než jsem si myslela. Bojácný Mateo se vzchopí a v poslední den jde ven s Rufusem, člověkem, kterého zrovna potkal na seznamce pro ztracence. Rufus musí utéct od pěstounské rodiny a začít odznovu. I když jen na den. Oba na konci zemřou mě překvapila. Mile překvapila. Nečekala jsem nic extra, jen nějakou nudnou knížku o dvou chlapcích. Ale ve skutečnosti jsem si uvědomila docela dost věcí. Že nikdy nevíme, kdy umřeme, a že strach z neznáma je zbytečný. Musíme žít naplno, jako kdyby každý den byl náš poslední. Smrt prostě jednou přijde, a my to musíme pochopit a Smrti za to předem odpustit. Byl to moc hezký příběh, i když to v podstatě byl jen obyčejný den. ✩ 4,5*/5*, romantická linka mi tam přišla taková.. nechci říct nucená, ale obešla bych se bez ní. Konec byl celkem otevřený, to mě docela zklamalo. Ale jinak se mi knížka líbila a hlavně se četla vážně rychle.

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Mathieu Schwab@mogwarts
5 stars
Jul 7, 2024

An absolutely enchanting and original novel. The use of the dual narrators was excellent both in establishing their own voices and showing the plot the way it deserved to be shown. (view spoiler)[ The romantic twist was expected, and I'm normally really not a fan of books that show someone falling in love for the first time right before they die and so their life had Meaning. However, the way it was portrayed in this book felt absolutely natural and did not push the idea that romantic love is somehow intrinsically more important and more valuable than any other kind of love, and that was refreshing and I absolutely loved it. (hide spoiler)] All in all, I was absolutely impressed by this novel, and cannot wait to start recommending it to everyone I can!

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Meaghan@meagcity
3 stars
Jul 6, 2024

** spoiler alert ** 3.5 ⭐️ Maybe I missed it but this sort of reads like a YA novel, not sure if it is or not but it still had a great concept and story line. Some of it seemed rushed, like the fact that they survive an explosion, basically a terror attack and ride away like it was nothing. The way they find love in the end is very sweet and it made my heart swell knowing it wouldn’t last. Excited to read the prequel!

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Matt Eaves@eavesyy
5 stars
Jul 5, 2024

So lovely, a super entertaining read. Love how the timeline is strictly linear, yet told through many POVs

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Andrea Morales@matchandrea
3 stars
Jun 28, 2024

meh, a 3.5 ☆ read, rounded down to 3 stars i liked the characters, and the romance felt cute at times, but couldn't really connect with it since the last third of the book felt very rushed and the world building was next to inexistent.

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Bria@ladspter
4 stars
May 31, 2024

** spoiler alert ** Why would Silvera make me fall in love with these characters who fall in love on the day they're going to die? Why did I underestimate how much I was going to love these character? And if Aimee doesn't leave that piece of shit, she never deserved Roof.

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aly@yubinhong
4 stars
May 30, 2024

4.75

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Laura@laura07scw
4.5 stars
May 26, 2024

It's such a good book. I knew that this book would make me cry and it did. The last 60 pages I was in tears. I screamed when Matteo and Rufus finally kissed. I loved all the relationships between the characters. And I hate Patrick ( I think that's his name. I don't remember it exactly).


This book is a solid 4,5/5 ⭐️

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Elisavet Rozaki @elisav3t
4 stars
May 20, 2024

4.5 - worth a read! makes you think.

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miu@miureads
3 stars
May 5, 2024

a cute read, i wasn't sad but it was nice knowing how they lived their last day

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Leon@annadaliah
4 stars
Apr 30, 2024

Sehr interessantes Konzept und wilder Schreibstil, aber das Ende ey☹️

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ebrar@ebrar
2 stars
Apr 23, 2024

** spoiler alert ** Although it has an interesting subject, I did not like the way the subject was handled and I found it unnecessary to read the point of view of the side characters. Especially when I empathized with Mateo, I think I wouldn't spend my last day like this and treat the people I love like this. If it was my last day on earth, I would not live like this in any way and It's not because I want to live my last day to the fullest. Also the book reminded me of the midnight library and the fault in our stars and frankly I liked them more.

Highlights

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Saraya Boyce@notray

“𝐈 𝐤𝐢𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐮𝐲 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐛𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐰𝐞’𝐫𝐞 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐢𝐞.“

𝐏𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝟑𝟎𝟖

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Aistė@lunarlxtte

Thank you for everything, Dad.

I'll be brave, and I'll be okay.

I love you from here to there.

Mateo

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Aistė@lunarlxtte

No, even if he didn't die a hero's death, he died a hero.

Mateo Torrez definitely saved me.

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Aistė@lunarlxtte

I kiss my Last Friend because the world can't be against us if it brought us together.

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Aistė@lunarlxtte

People have their time stamps on how long you should know someone before earning the right to say it, but I wouldn't lie to you no matter how little time we have.

People waste time and wait for the right moment and we don't have that luxury.

(...) But because we're about to die, I want to say it as many times as I want-- I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you.

Page 342
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Aistė@lunarlxtte

"My Last Message would be to find your people. And to treat each day like a lifetime."

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Aistė@lunarlxtte

In the future, Rufus is a travel blogger and I'm an architect. We have tattoos we got together. We've gone to so many concerts he can't keep them straight in his head.

I almost wish we weren't so creative in this moment, because these fake memories of friendship feel incredible. Imagine that-- reliving something you never lived.

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Aistė@lunarlxtte

I wish we had more time. (...)

I want us to have history, something longer than the small window of time we're actually sharing

Page 321
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Aistė@lunarlxtte

We take it slow, and out of all the ways I've lived today, maintaining eye contact with Rufus is really hard; it's easily become the most intense intimacy ever I've ever experienced.

He leans in to my ear, throwing me into this weird phase where I'm relieved to be free of his gaze but also miss his eyes and the way he looks at me, like I'm good enough

Page 321
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Aistė@lunarlxtte

No one will send messages to friends about the lame kid who had no rhythm. And in this moment, how stupid it was to care hits me like a punch to the face.

I wasted time and missed fun because I cared about the wrong things.

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Aistė@lunarlxtte

That love is a superpower we all have, but it's not always a superpower I'd be able to control. Especially as I get older. Sometimes it'll go crazy and I shouldn't be scared if my power hits someone I'm not expecting it to.

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Aistė@lunarlxtte

It is not death that a man should fear,

but he should fear never beginning to live.

-Marcus Aurelius

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Aistė@lunarlxtte

A ship in harbor is safe,

but that is not what ships are built for.

-John A. Shedd

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Aaron Richardson@barbzaaron

This one life wasn’t enough.

I wish we had more time…

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Aimee :)@aimees_reading

I return my attention to the video, his voice blasting in my ears.

I cross the street without an arm to hold me back.

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Aimee :)@aimees_reading

Makes me wish I'd known him since childhood.

An extra week, even.

Extra hour.

Just more time.

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Aimee :)@aimees_reading

No, even if he didn't die a hero's death, he died a hero,

Mateo Torrez definitely saved me.

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Aimee :)@aimees_reading

My heart is burning.

Page 352
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Aimee :)@aimees_reading

I talk to the boy in the body bag about all the things we said we'd do together, but he can't hear me.

Page 352
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Aimee :)@aimees_reading

I'm sitting on the curb when the medics bag Mateo Torrez up.

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Aimee :)@aimees_reading

"Come on, Mateo, it's me, Roof. You hear me, right? It's Roof. Wake up now. Please wake up.”

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Aimee :)@aimees_reading

Another medic opens the ambulance's rear doors, but he doesn't put Mateo in the back. He pulls out a body bag.

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Aimee :)@aimees_reading

"I'm sorry. He's gone."

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Aimee :)@aimees_reading

A medic checks Mateo's pulse and looks at me with sympathy and it's fucking bullshit.

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