Name: What If This Were Enough?
Rating: 3.227272727272727 (22 reviews)
ISBN: 9780385542883

Heather Havrilesky

"Heather Havrilesky attempts to disrupt our cultural delusions and false dichotomies, to unearth moralistic interpretations of mundane human behaviors and interrogate so-called mistakes that we've slowly internalized, and to question the glorification of suffering, dishonesty, romantic fantasy, conquest, predation, and perfectionism"--

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What If This Were Enough?

JoAnna

Havrilesky is a brilliant critic & essayist. Reading this, I get the feeling that she's been through a lot of pressure, which gave shape to her opinions in this book. Her insistence that this moment is enough, in an age constantly demanding more of us (whether through personal social media branding or the endless quest for self-betterment) feels refreshing: it's nice to hear from a critic that we all need to take a damn breather and chill the fuck out. I especially appreciated her discussion of the self-help guru vs. the artist in A Scourge of Gurus. 

Taking off one star because her style is convoluted at times, and may feel excessive in trying to prove a point.

Jun Angelo Cabuguas

i really enjoyed this book, a great last chapter, although playing house was by far my favorite essay. it felt like i was having a series of realizations while reading this one, good stuff

Dara Skolnick

I didn't disagree with much in this book as I was reading it -- a lot of the essays mirrored my own feelings. That said, they were so cynical that it's making me reconsider my own cynicism, now that I've seen it so clearly mirrored back at me. The energy of this book is not at all how I want to feel, or what I want to put out into the world, so maybe it was a helpful read after all.

Jeremy Cote

I thought this was an interesting collection of essays. I thought some of them were a bit heavy on the television references (I learned later that she was a TV critic), and I also found she was harsh at some points, but I really enjoyed the last essay. It was a perfect way to end it, and I would say she saved the best for last.

Zane Shannon

*A Publishers Weekly Best Book of 2018* *A Bustle Best Nonfiction Book of 2018* *One of Chicago Tribune's Favorite Books by Women in 2018* *A Self Best Book of 2018 to Buy for the Bookworm in Your Life* By the acclaimed critic, memoirist, and advice columnist behind the popular "Ask Polly," an impassioned collection tackling our obsession with self-improvement and urging readers to embrace the imperfections of the everyday Heather Havrilesky's writing has been called "whip-smart and profanely funny" (Entertainment Weekly) and "required reading for all humans" (Celeste Ng). In her work for New York, The Baffler, The New York Times Magazine, and The Atlantic, as well as in "Ask Polly," her advice column for The Cut, she dispenses a singular, cutting wisdom--an ability to inspire, provoke, and put a name to our most insidious cultural delusions. What If This Were Enough? is a mantra and a clarion call. In its chapters--many of them original to the book, others expanded from their initial publication--Havrilesky takes on those cultural forces that shape us. We've convinced ourselves, she says, that salvation can be delivered only in the form of new products, new technologies, new lifestyles. From the allure of materialism to our misunderstandings of romance and success, Havrilesky deconstructs some of the most poisonous and misleading messages we ingest today, all the while suggesting new ways to navigate our increasingly bewildering world. Through her incisive and witty inquiries, Havrilesky urges us to reject the pursuit of a shiny, shallow future that will never come. These timely, provocative, and often hilarious essays suggest an embrace of the flawed, a connection with what already is, who we already are, what we already have. She asks us to consider: What if this were enough? Our salvation, Havrilesky says, can be found right here, right now, in this imperfect moment.

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