The Member of the Wedding
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The Member of the Wedding

Her brother's wedding intensifies a twelve-year-old's need to be recognized as an important person.
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paola montepiedra@paolaa
3.5 stars
Feb 1, 2024

This is what Don recommended to me when I asked for something written by a female writer. A charming story about a precocious girl in the South. Short and beautifully written.

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Melody Izard@mizard
4 stars
Jan 10, 2022

Carson McCullers was an author who used her writing to search for God and to explore her own questions about sexual identity. In The Member of the Wedding her main character, who is called Frankie, turns 12 and begins to try to figure out how she is going to navigate her way around this big old lonely world. Will she do it with a “crew-cut”, wearing a Mexican hat and with “rusty elbows”, or will she seek adventure in exotic places with “Esquimaux” by train in silver slippers with her hair in curls going by the name of F. Jasmine on the arm of a soldier? Frankie does not belong to any “we”. The neighborhood girls won’t let her join their club and the only people she ever talks with are her housekeeper Bernice and her distant cousin, John Henry; John Henry who follows F. Jasmine around the town wearing her jonquil dress, one of the “costumes” that Frankie has given to him. McCullers’ Southern Gothic novel is a coming of age story – but this is the coming of age story of a misfit who throws knives at her housekeeper, steals knives from the local Sears and Roebuck Store and also steals her father’s pistol and shoots up all the cartridges in a vacant lot. She is growing up in the time of WWII, never knowing her mother who died the day Frankie was born. She is being raised by her tired, widowed father and Bernice, their black housekeeper who dreams of a world where there is “no separate colored people in the world, but all human beings (are) light brown color with blue eyes and black hair. There would be no colored people and no white people to make the colored people feel cheap and sorry all through their lives. No colored people, but all human men and ladies and children as one loving family on the earth.” Bernice also dreams of finding a new man who makes her "shiver." Frankie is on the brink of sexual and emotional discovery – and the rest of the world is also struggling with racial conflict and the horrors and disruption of war.

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Amanda Wells@amandawells
4 stars
Nov 25, 2021

I can't quite put my finger on quite why I liked this story so much. Possibly it was simply the perspective of Frankie that pulled me in.

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Jade Flynn@jadeflynn
4 stars
Nov 20, 2021

The Member of the Wedding is a concise and delicately slow southern tale where we hitch a ride along the path of a girl's self discovery. Even though she's not always likeable there's something universal in her need to belong juxtaposed with her need for escape, we've all been there. It's a story with remarkable resonance hidden beneath the facade of a simple exterior. McCullers is the queen of the Southern Gothic.

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Dinesh Ram@dineshram
4 stars
Jan 13, 2023
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Jeremy Boyd@jboydsplit
5 stars
Apr 22, 2022
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Kirsten Maliepaard@kirsten508
2 stars
Oct 24, 2021
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Erin G.@toughcakes
5 stars
Jul 4, 2024
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Barış Yarsel@pagan
3 stars
Jun 15, 2024
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stel@st3lla
5 stars
May 13, 2024
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Sonia Grgas@sg911911
3 stars
Feb 23, 2024
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so@softer
3 stars
Jan 29, 2024
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Erika@erikasku
4 stars
Dec 26, 2023
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Ed Kay@edk
5 stars
Apr 6, 2023
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Jacob Mishook@jmishook
4 stars
Oct 16, 2022
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Kristen Gombas@kristenmarie
4 stars
Sep 26, 2022
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Katie@fictionandlatte
3 stars
Aug 26, 2022
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jess@brekker
3 stars
Aug 18, 2022
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Charlotte @readwithchar
3 stars
Aug 17, 2022
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Loretta Dredger@lorettacd
1 star
Aug 15, 2022
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Amanda S@amandas
5 stars
May 11, 2022
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Sierra Bradley@strawb3rr1
4 stars
Mar 13, 2022
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Brigid Hogan@br1gid
4 stars
Feb 28, 2022
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Jessie@jraelew
3 stars
Feb 24, 2022