Name: Rochelle Butcher's review of These Precious Days by Ann Patchett
Item: These Precious Days
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Author: Rochelle Butcher

Ann Patchett

The beloved New York Times bestselling author reflects on home, family, friendships and writing in this deeply personal collection of essays. "Any story that starts will also end." As a writer, Ann Patchett knows what the outcome of her fiction will be. Life, however, often takes turns we do not see coming. Patchett ponders this truth in these wise essays that afford a fresh and intimate look into her mind and heart. At the center of These Precious Days is the title essay, a surprising and moving meditation on an unexpected friendship that explores "what it means to be seen, to find someone with whom you can be your best and most complete self." When Patchett chose an early galley of actor and producer Tom Hanks' short story collection to read one night before bed, she had no idea that this single choice would be life changing. It would introduce her to a remarkable woman--Tom's brilliant assistant Sooki--with whom she would form a profound bond that held monumental consequences for them both. A literary alchemist, Patchett plumbs the depths of her experiences to create gold: engaging and moving pieces that are both self-portrait and landscape, each vibrant with emotion and rich in insight. Turning her writer's eye on her own experiences, she transforms the private into the universal, providing us all a way to look at our own worlds anew, and reminds how fleeting and enigmatic life can be. From the enchantments of Kate DiCamillo's children's books (author of the upcoming The Beatryce Prophecy) to youthful memories of Paris; the cherished life gifts given by her three fathers to the unexpected influence of Charles Schultz's Snoopy; the expansive vision of Eudora Welty to the importance of knitting, Patchett connects life and art as she illuminates what matters most. Infused with the author's grace, wit, and warmth, the pieces in These Precious Days resonate deep in the soul, leaving an indelible mark--and demonstrate why Ann Patchett is one of the most celebrated writers of our time.

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These Precious Days

"People want you to want what they want. If you want the same things they want, then their want is validated. If you don’t want the same things, your lack of wanting can, to certain people, come across as judgment."

"It turns out that having a hard wall to hit your tennis balls against is what gives them bounce. Having someone who believed in my failure more than my success kept me alert. It made me fierce. Without ever meaning to, my father taught me at a very early age to give up on the idea of approval. I wish I could bottle that freedom now and give it to every young writer I meet, with an extra bottle for the women. I would give them the ability both to love and not to care."

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For as many times as the horrible thing happens, a thousand times in every day the horrible thing passes us by.

"As every reader knows, the social contract between you and a book you love is not complete until you can hand that book to someone else and say, Here, you're going to love this."

It’s no surprise to the people who know me that I ADORE Snoopy. I went into this book completely blind, all I know was that it’s a collection of essays by Ann Patchett. So imagine my surprise when she wrote an entire chapter discussing Snoopy.

I love this line I highlighted. It’s short but it deeply resonated with me just because my bestfriend and I are inseparable, and I call him Woodstock and he calls me Snoopy. :)

Snoopy dedicated his first book to Woodstock, "My friend of friends."

The beloved New York Times bestselling author reflects on home, family, friendships and writing in this deeply personal collection of essays. “Any story that starts will also end.” As a writer, Ann Patchett knows what the outcome of her fiction will be. Life, however, often takes turns we do not see coming. Patchett ponders this truth in these wise essays that afford a fresh and intimate look into her mind and heart. At the center of These Precious Days is the title essay, a suprising and moving meditation on an unexpected friendship that explores “what it means to be seen, to find someone with whom you can be your best and most complete self.” When Patchett chose an early galley of actor and producer Tom Hanks’ short story collection to read one night before bed, she had no idea that this single choice would be life changing. It would introduce her to a remarkable woman—Tom’s brilliant assistant Sooki—with whom she would form a profound bond that held monumental consequences for them both. A literary alchemist, Patchett plumbs the depths of her experiences to create gold: engaging and moving pieces that are both self-portrait and landscape, each vibrant with emotion and rich in insight. Turning her writer’s eye on her own experiences, she transforms the private into the universal, providing us all a way to look at our own worlds anew, and reminds how fleeting and enigmatic life can be. From the enchantments of Kate di Camilo’s children’s books to youthful memories of Paris; the cherished life gifts given by her three fathers to the unexpected influence of Charles Schultz’s Snoopy; the expansive vision of Eudora Welty to the importance of knitting, Patchett connects life and art as she illuminates what matters most. Infused with the author’s grace, wit, and warmth, the pieces in These Precious Days resonate deep in the soul, leaving an indelible mark—and demonstrate why Ann Patchett is one of the most celebrated writers of our time.

“Let’s keep doing this,” she says. “Let’s do this forever.”

Dad, there is joy in the place that you left.

He’s finished his job and now is free to send his atoms back into the earth and sea and stars.

This wasn’t about whether or not I loved my father. I did love him. He was brave and funny and smart. He could also be difficult even in the full bloom of health, and he often drove me witless, just as I could be difficult, and drive him witless. I was his daughter, after all.

I will tell you: as a writer I am first and foremost my father’s daughter.

“I’M DYING,” MY friend had said to me. “I’ll go with you,” I said.

Everyone was wide awake, waiting up to see if the world was going to end.

Pay attention, I told myself. Pay attention every minute.

sigh... but everything i've been doing in the past years is only for the plot

People are not characters, no matter how often we tell them they are; conversations are not dialogue; and the actions of our days don’t add up to a plot.

The trick was being brave enough to look.

Sometimes the world hands you exactly what you need when you need it.

We are social creatures. Even the introverted readers, the silent writers, want a place where they feel welcomed and understood.

As every reader knows, the social contract between you and a book you love is not complete until you can hand that book to someone else and say, Here, you’re going to love this.

It can take very little to be pointed in the right direction—or the wrong direction for that matter—when you’re twenty-one.

We don’t deserve anything—not the suffering and not the golden light. It just comes.

I’ve always had the impulse to protect myself, but somewhere along the way I got confused about what I needed protection from.

I wondered how my teachers had given me so much encouragement, and decided they’d pushed me along not because I was talented but because I was the hardest worker.

Dead or alive, I wanted to be judged by my best work, the finished product.

A meteor could be skating past Earth’s atmosphere this very minute. We’ll never know how close we came to annihilation, but today I saw it—everything I had and stood to lose and did not lose.

Ashleigh Izaguirre

Rochelle Butcher

Many of the essays in Ann Patchett’s new book can be found for free online in places like The New York Times and The New Yorker. I enjoyed reading them over the last few years of the pandemic. I was happy to see that she compiled them
into a published book. I liked the fact that I could sit for twenty minutes a day and read a short essay. 

The author touches on random subjects throughout her essays; her two fathers, a year of buying nothing, reading children’s author Kate DiCamello and in the most touching story, her dear friend Sookie. There is a theme of death throughout the book but it’s not depressing. Highly recommended.

Nonfiction is quite a hit or miss for me. But “These Precious Days” is a beautiful book. It perfectly encapsulated how to express the joy you find in the mundane— to think about how wonderful life is and the people around you. The tenderness and love that she puts into the stories of her friends, family and job is the cherry on top. I think my favorites were the “Three Fathers”, Sooki’s story, and the one about Snoopy (of course!). 💛

Ozge Kara

I listened to this book as an audiobook. It worked very well. I loved the author’s narration. I always prefer when authors narrate their own books and Ann Patchett does a wonderful job. 

The books starts with the essay “Three Fathers” and tells us so much about family, friendship, work, love. There were maybe two or three essays that I didn’t care for much but I loved Three Fathers, The Paris Tattoo, There are No Children Here and of course These Precious Days.

Fraser Simons

There does feel like a certain level of earnestness and ability to hone in on what is “interesting”. To some degree, I think it’s just luck, as far as if the reader finds the same things as the author to be compelling. In this case, 75% of the time, the answer for this reader is “yes”. The whole time I was consuming this (on audio) I was thinking about how much better these topics and thoughts are than The Anthropocene Reviewed, which was an onslaught of mundanity and boredom, causing me to DNF it. Though, I read and like Patchett and haven’t read much Green at all. So, to what degree is it also a parasocial influence? Who knows.

For me though, Patchett’s honesty around how fiction has influenced her life were very relatable. I think stories and fiction itself is kind of like advertising, you are affected as you consume it—whether or not you _believe_ it or not is meaningless. I am aware that most of my beliefs and thoughts come from relationships to some type of fiction or another, so there was a lot of “seen” moments in this. 

It’s affecting, how able Patchett is able to bare these really personal things. Many of them people might look at you funny at a party if you brought it up. I always appreciate when an author just puts things out there, interrogating the notions or not, and just shows how they’re constructed by articulating stories that are formative. 

One or two I didn’t care about. Quite a few were some of the highest quality of writing. About what I expected, yet still exceeded my expectations. Close to a 5 star, but not quite.

Cindy Lieberman

A sometimes funny, often moving book about the people in her life and how they have influenced her (and she them), from her three dads to her second husband to a woman she met later in life yet with whom she formed a strong bond. Filled with strong characters, tips on writing and getting the book jacket you want, and relationships with parents, lovers, and friends. 
#the52bookclub #30: audiobook is narrated by the author

Kim Tyo-Dickerson

Two unexpected essays in this unputdownable view into Patchett's writing life: "To the Doghouse" about Patchett's early life-and-literary inspiration and writing guru, Snoopy: "I learned the happy dance and it has served me well," and "Reading Kate DiCamillo" about how Patchett came to appreciate children's literature after opening her own bookstore. She writes after reading and falling in love with DiCamillo's The Miraculous Journey of Edward Tulane: "It made no difference what age it was written for. I felt like I had found a magic portal and all I'd had to do to pass through was believe that I wasn't too bit to fit" (218). These words bring me to this revelation in my own reading life, thankfully much earlier on, and is literally why I love children's literature and chose tot be a world librarian.

Niki Sotiropoulou-Nassika

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'A heartfelt and witty collection of essays on everything from marriage and knitting to the inevitability of death' Guardian, 50 biggest books of autumn 'Profound and clever and funny and wise' Meg Mason, author of Sorrow & Bliss An irresistible collection of essays and memoir from the internationally bestselling, Women's Prize-winning author of The Dutch House Any story that starts will also end.' As a writer, Ann Patchett knows what the outcome of her fiction will be. Life, however, often takes turns we do not see coming. Patchett ponders this as she explores family, friendship, marriage, failure, success, and what it all means. Ranging from the personal – her portrait of the three men she called her fathers; how a chance encounter with Tom Hanks led to one of the most important friendships of her life; how to answer when someone asks why you don't have children – to the sublime – the unexpected influence of Snoopy; the importance of knitting; the pleasure to be found in children's books – each essay transforms the particular into the universal, letting us all see our own worlds anew. Illuminating, penetrating, funny and generous, These Precious Days is joyful time spent in the company of one of our greatest living authors. 'Patchett's essays are both sharp and humane ... like a hugely enjoyable conversation with a particularly brilliant friend' Sadie Jones

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In her new collection, with her trademark blend of wryness, intelligence and wisdom, she explores family, friendship, marriage, failure, success - and how all these forces have shaped her as a writer. Ranging from the personal - her portrait in triptych of the three men she called her fathers, to unexpectedly falling into a friendship with Tom Hanks, to how to answer when someone asks why you don't have children - to the sublime - exploring the Harvard Museum of Natural History before its doors open, or the perfection to be found on a single page of Eudora Welty - each essay shows Patchett's strikingly original perspective, and the magical sleight of hand with which she transforms the particular into the universal. Illuminating, penetrating, funny and generous, These Precious Days is joyful time spent in the company of one of our greatest living authors.

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