Autumn Light

Autumn Light Season of Fire and Farewells

Pico Iyer2019
From one of our most astute observers of human nature, a far-reaching exploration of Japanese history and culture and a moving meditation on impermanence, mortality, and grief. For years, Pico Iyer has split his time between California and Nara, Japan, where he and his Japanese wife, Hiroko, have a small home. But when his father-in-law dies suddenly, calling him back to Japan earlier than expected, Iyer begins to grapple with the question we all have to live with: how to hold on to the things we love, even though we know that we and they are dying. In a country whose calendar is marked with occasions honoring the dead, this question is more urgent than anywhere else. Iyer leads us through the year following his father-in-law's death, introducing us to the people who populate his days: his ailing mother-in-law, who often forgets that her husband has died; his absent brother-in-law, who severed ties with his family years ago but to whom Hiroko still writes letters; and the men and women in his ping-pong club, who, many years his senior, traverse their autumn years in different ways. And as the maple leaves begin to redden and the heat begins to soften, Iyer offers us a singular view of Japan, in the season that reminds us to take nothing for granted.
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Mario Menti @mario
5 stars
Sep 14, 2021

I absolutely loved this book. And I think I read it at the right time (not to mention the right age), shortly after seeing Yasujirō Ozu's Tokyo Story. He explicitly mentions this scene at the end of the film, which is one that I genuinely will never forget: “Life is disappointing, isn’t it?” says a young girl who’s just lost her mother, near the movie’s end. Her sister-in-law, only slightly older but a widow already, breaks into a radiant smile. “Yes,” she says, in the voice of classical Japan. “It is.” If you're interested in Japan, and (ideally, like me) getting on a bit, I highly recommend this quite beautiful rumination on Japan, aging and death.

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Gianfranco Chicco@Gchicco
3 stars
Jul 26, 2021

Reflections on the Autumn of life. Maybe it was the specific moment and space in time it caught me in, this book left me with a feeling of sorrow and sadness.

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Cal Desmond‐Pearson@social-hermit
4 stars
Sep 24, 2022
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Laura Schmidt@lauras
4 stars
Nov 20, 2021