
The Shame Machine Who Profits in the New Age of Humiliation
Reviews

It knew it was a bad read from the first few chapters. I stuck with it to see if things would improve, and sadly it didn't. First, a positive - it is well written. I wouldn't have been able to finish it if it were a slog. So what's wrong with the book? A lot. It had so much potential to dissect the role of shame that plays in society. The good, the bad everything. The author attempts a bit but falls short a bunch. My biggest problem is the cognitive dissonance. From the title of the book it is apparent that shame is bad. Perhaps there's a machinery that's taking advantage of it. Then the author goes onto to cite Gandhi, who famously "shamed" Britain out of India. It is unclear what the takeaway from the book is. There's the predictable "for profit companies bad" narrative but it is very blunt. It lacks the nuance and adds nothing more than what has been said so far. Again, I'd have been ok. I think the gravest error the author made was sympathizing with "Karens" specifically the woman who called cops on an innocent black man in NY central park. I wish the author didn't try to make excuses for the woman who clearly put a man's life in danger. Avoid the book.

Read the chapters about body-shaming, which were thoughful and heartfelt. Here, O'Neil brilliantly mobilizes her expertise with statistics to cut through a bunch of widespread & harmful misrepresentations perpetuated by the dieting industry. However, feel free to skip the rest. The other sections read like watered-down overviews of others' better research on the psychology of shame, negative propaganda about welfare, and "cancelling" (& who gets to define it) on social media.




