The Shame Machine

The Shame Machine Who Profits in the New Age of Humiliation

Cathy O'Neil2022
A clear-eyed warning about the increasingly destructive influence of America's "shame industrial complex" in the age of social media and hyper-partisan politics--from the New York Times bestselling author of Weapons of Math Destruction Shame is a powerful and sometimes useful tool: When we publicly shame corrupt politicians, abusive celebrities, or predatory corporations, we reinforce values of fairness and justice. But as Cathy O'Neil argues in this revelatory book, shaming has taken a new and dangerous turn. It is increasingly being weaponized--used as a way to shift responsibility for social problems from institutions to individuals. Shaming children for not being able to afford school lunches or adults for not being able to find work lets us off the hook as a society. After all, why pay higher taxes to fund programs for people who are fundamentally unworthy? O'Neil explores the machinery behind all this shame, showing how governments, corporations, and the healthcare system capitalize on it. There are damning stories of rehab clinics, prisons, drug and diet companies, and social media platforms--all of which profit from "punching down" on the vulnerable. Woven throughout is the story of O'Neil's own struggle with body image and her recent decision to undergo weight-loss surgery, shaking off decades of shame. With clarity and nuance, O'Neil dissects the relationship between shame and power. Who does the system serve? Is it counter-productive to call out racists, misogynists, and vaccine skeptics? If so, when should someone be "canceled"? How do current incentive structures perpetuate the shaming cycle? And, most important, how can we all fight back?
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Jeffrey Jose@jeffjose
1 star
Oct 17, 2023

It knew it was a bad read from the first few chapters. I stuck with it to see if things would improve, and sadly it didn't. First, a positive - it is well written. I wouldn't have been able to finish it if it were a slog. So what's wrong with the book? A lot. It had so much potential to dissect the role of shame that plays in society. The good, the bad everything. The author attempts a bit but falls short a bunch. My biggest problem is the cognitive dissonance. From the title of the book it is apparent that shame is bad. Perhaps there's a machinery that's taking advantage of it. Then the author goes onto to cite Gandhi, who famously "shamed" Britain out of India. It is unclear what the takeaway from the book is. There's the predictable "for profit companies bad" narrative but it is very blunt. It lacks the nuance and adds nothing more than what has been said so far. Again, I'd have been ok. I think the gravest error the author made was sympathizing with "Karens" specifically the woman who called cops on an innocent black man in NY central park. I wish the author didn't try to make excuses for the woman who clearly put a man's life in danger. Avoid the book.

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Boothby@claraby
2 stars
Apr 14, 2023

Read the chapters about body-shaming, which were thoughful and heartfelt. Here, O'Neil brilliantly mobilizes her expertise with statistics to cut through a bunch of widespread & harmful misrepresentations perpetuated by the dieting industry. However, feel free to skip the rest. The other sections read like watered-down overviews of others' better research on the psychology of shame, negative propaganda about welfare, and "cancelling" (& who gets to define it) on social media.

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Nick Simson@nsmsn
3 stars
Jul 21, 2022
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Rob@robcesq
3 stars
Dec 28, 2023
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Soumya@soumyak16
3 stars
Dec 8, 2023
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Duality Diva@dualitydiva
3 stars
Jun 25, 2023
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Ali Angco@aliangco
3 stars
Mar 26, 2023