Love and Other Words
Emotional
Heartwarming
Sweet

Love and Other Words

Christina Lauren — 2018
Love, loss, friendship, and the betrayals of the past, all collide in this first women's fiction novel from New York Times and #1 international bestselling author Christina Lauren. The story of the heart can never be unwritten. Macy Sorensen is settling into an ambitious if emotionally tepid routine: work hard as new pediatrics resident, plan her wedding to an older, financially secure man, keep her head down and heart tucked away. But when she runs into Elliot Petropoulos-the first and only love of her life-the careful bubble she's constructed begins to dissolve. Once upon a time, Elliot was Macy's entire world-growing from her gangly bookish friend into the man who coaxed her heart open again after the loss of her mother...only to break it on the very night he declared his love for her. Told in alternating timelines between Then and Now, teenage Elliot and Macy grow from friends to much more-spending weekends and lazy summers together in a house outside of San Francisco devouring books, sharing favourite words, and taking through their growing pains and triumphs. As adults, they have become strangers to one another until their chance reunion. Although their memories are obscured by agony of what happened that night so many years ago, Elliot will come to understand the truth behind Macy's decade-long silence, and will have to overcome the past and himself to revive her faith in the possibility of an all-consuming love.
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Megan Murray @owleyes1031
5 stars
Mar 18, 2025

Wow. This one will make you feel everything- grief, love, longing, hope, you name it. I loved Macy and Elliot, the setting, the dual timelines, and the way the story all came together at the end. It will literally rip you apart, and then put you back together. A very different story for Christina Lauren, I didn't realize that going into it, but it's definitely my new favorite by them.

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Kaitlyn Macpherson @k8lyn
4 stars
Jan 11, 2025

SO SAD OMG😭😭😭😭

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alexys <3@alexys_nickole4
5 stars
Dec 4, 2024

i have zero complaints except where’s their wedding.

+6
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Kyra@kiwiosreading
4.5 stars
Nov 12, 2024

I loved this.

The romance? The subtle spice? The plot twist? The two timelines? Amazing.

100% A must read.

+5
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caril a@caril
3 stars
Nov 7, 2024

the pacing was soooo good but like medj predictable ung ending... huhu i love Elliot thoooo SAUR MATS HEH baka nga sia ung one of my book bf but i know naa pay mas mulabaw niya hehhdhdhe

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debbie <3@debbiereadslittle
3.5 stars
Aug 31, 2024

i love a friends to lovers but this was okayyyy… i understand why they did the past to present so it can have its big twist but i wish it was just wasn’t lol so we can see them grow up together, it was cutee, sometime little boring.. elliot is sooo women written but that’s nice after a load of “bad boys” but okay

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surtified™@heartrender081
4 stars
Aug 19, 2024

This book was so well written, and so well structured, with eachchapter being THEN and NOW, as we approach closer and closer to 11 years ago. It did really well in interesting me, and being intruiging, and I understand why everyone loves this book so much. However, I didn't adore it the way other people did. They seemed to love this book alot, almost claimed it to be the best book they've ever read, and it was pretty good, but I don't think it was amazing, and also the end was quite predictable? All of that build up, but for that. I did cry at the end, although not alot, just because we already knew since hints were dropped alot. I feel like the hype of this book was also something that might have ruined my opinion of it, but I'd definatly still recommend it.

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ruby g@ruuubie
4.8 stars
Aug 3, 2024

probably one of my fav books, kinda problematic at some point, crazy ending

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Jennifer Gosnell@jennifereveann
5 stars
Jul 19, 2024

LOVE LOVE LOVE this book. So sweet and cute and poignant. It felt like a rom com in my head in the best way possible. One tiny thing was that I hated when Elliot called Macey “honey.” Way too maternal. Otherwise, it was perfection.

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Lola@curledupwithcoffee
5 stars
Jul 16, 2024

I had to use all of my willpower to put this down and get some sleep at 3am. 100% a five-star read. I laughed, i cried; i kicked my feet like a lovestruck school girl. Every minute of this book was entertaining and enjoyable.

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Sofie I@sofiereads1
3.5 stars
Jul 15, 2024

The story of this book was really good and the love is intense. It took me about 150-200 pages to get to the “I can’t put it down” point but once it got there it was good. It’s verrry spicy which I was not expecting so just heads up. Overall a cute sweet read that breaks your heart and melts it together.

+5
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Shannon C@shannonhaleyy
5 stars
Jul 5, 2024

“I’ve been waiting for you to come home for eleven years. i’ll go anywhere you go.” I loved this so much

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Zoey Novak@zlnovak
3.5 stars
Jun 19, 2024

Really heartwarming love story combined with familial ties and self exploration. I will say, it was about halfway through before I was hooked, the beginning was a bit slow.

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clau☁️@claureading
5 stars
May 11, 2024

I can just say this is my all time favorite (or at least one of them cause I don’t even have a favorite book anymore). I have no words😭😍 (funny I know)

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Lauren R@lauren24
5 stars
May 11, 2024

Cried for like 2 straight chapters. no kidding. I was so invested in this couple I didn't know it was possible in only 400 page.

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arwen@corienrielle
1 star
May 5, 2024

i put myself through this so yall dont have to

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Ellie M.@arthieshelved
4 stars
May 5, 2024

“Why can’t everyone be like you?” “I can be enough of your world that it feels like everyone is.” 3.75 ⭐️ I still don’t know how to feel this book. To be fair, I rarely read contemporary novels but this certainly was another *chef’s kiss* slowburn childhood bestfriends to lovers story. I liked how cute and heartwarming Macy and Elliott were written when they were younger, and their sweetest moments together in the closet just reading and talking about what they missed on the weekdays. Also, I find it oddly comforting to read this, despite the deep-seated angst and the discussions of dealing with loss and grief. I find it was also easy to connect with the characters and feel their pain with you (I immediately sympathized with Macy’s character and I understood her so well). However, there were also many parts that I didn’t like. For example, I didn’t exactly enjoy the pacing of the writing. The time jumps from past and now were very dragging and mildly annoying because it ruined the buildup of the tension and emotions every chapter, most especially if there was on oncoming conflict that the characters had to face. It just bore me out. Another is that I don’t really understand the miscommunication trope here that led to all that unsaid goodbyes for a decade. I get that they were unhappy without each other, but is it really okay for you to break up a 5-year relationship with a woman who’s been there for you and helped you deal with your grief simply because your past came back from the fucking grave? I did not find that endearing nor a romantic gesture and I feel so bad for Rachel because she does not deserve to be thrown away just like that. And he did that just to rush and get back with Macy, who’s basically engaged. Too angsty yet underwhelming. There were also so many missing elements about the writing of the main conflict that led to the miscommunication and a painful breakup. So overall, I did not enjoy this so much, but I also won’t say this is terrible (too harsh), I’m talking about my own reading experience. This is definitely not a book for me.

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8
4.5 stars
Apr 28, 2024

Really loved this book! I got pretty swept into the story and read most of it in two days. The ending broke my heart, I really wasn't expecting it. I loved their story. It's the kind of love that makes you really believe that soulmates exist. I think I would enjoy this book even more if I reread it too. Definitely recommend!

+6
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aileeeeeeen@herlibraries
5 stars
Apr 26, 2024

is it wicked to wish something like what they had? :( God, this is so beautiful.

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Gabby Trupp@earth2gab
4 stars
Apr 11, 2024

4.5

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renata hernandez@himynameisrenata
4 stars
Apr 6, 2024

llore demasiado pero elliot es nombre de gay una disculpa

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chateau@chateau_chante
2 stars
Apr 2, 2024

i just can't take it no more. this book was irritating me. i hate the characterization of macy and elliot. a lot. i cursed too much. like really, a lot. sorry but this book is totally overhyped.

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aleksandra@aleksandrareading
4 stars
Apr 2, 2024

4/5 “Favorite word?” he whispers. I don’t even hesitate: “You.”

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madreadz⟢@madreadz
4 stars
Mar 25, 2024

This is the kind of book that makes you want to believe in soulmates because of these characters—how they’re deeply drawn to each other and how their love for each other is just out of this world, so much so that it’s almost tangible.

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alexys <3@alexys_nickole4

"Favorite word?" he whispers.

I don't even hesitate: "You."

i’m on the grojnd

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alexys <3@alexys_nickole4

Elliot kisses me once, and then ducks, kissing my chest over my heart. "Ive been waiting for you to come home for eleven years. I'll go anywhere you go.

when is it my turn

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alexys <3@alexys_nickole4

I still remember him saying over and over that he was sorry. he was so sorry, he lost his brother the same way, he was so sorry.

i’m bawling my eyes out what the fuck

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alexys <3@alexys_nickole4

Elliot is there, his arm pressed to my arm, my twin heartbeat, a comforting presence.

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alexys <3@alexys_nickole4

Then come over here, he said in that same quiet voice "You kiss me."

My eyes flew to his. "What?"

“Kiss me.”

i’m in love with him not

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alexys <3@alexys_nickole4

“And then I met Elliot and it was like..." I search for the right words. "I had someone my age who really understood me and saw me for exactly who I was.”

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alexys <3@alexys_nickole4

Every inch of your skin I made diligently; months I slaved over you. You are my masterpiece.

awh.

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Lisa Weidacher@liser

In that case, i like living alone, but would rather lice with you. I like sleeping alone but would rather have you in my bed

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

"Favorite word?" he whispers.

I don't even hesitate: "You."

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

The past decade seems like a foggy blur, like we took a long road trip from one point of the earth and back again, traveling in a wide circle, destined to end up here.

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

"Will you go with me? To clean it out?" I wince, admitting, "I haven't been back in a really long time."

Elliot kisses me once, and then ducks, kissing my chest over my heart. "I've been waiting for you to come home for eleven years. I'll go anywhere you go."

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

"Honey, you lost your mom at ten, and your dad at eighteen. It sucks that you disappeared, but it's not like I don't get it. Holy shit, your life just... crumbled that day."

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

Even at the time, I knew it wasn't quite right, I couldn't quite connect the dots, but the tiny kernel of hurt over Elliot with Emma got wrapped up in Dad and why he came to get me in the first place.

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

But his attention on me meant it wasn't on the road.

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

"I knew it wasn't your fault," I choke out, "but for so long it felt like it was."

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

I knew his regret was enormous.

But that wasn't ever the problem.

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

"Do you know how many times I've told you this story in my head?"

"Probably about as many times as I've tried to pretend I didn't see what I saw."

He crouches. "I didn't know what happened until a few days later."

"What?"

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

Brandon was right: Elliot was passed out.

But so was Emma, lying naked across his torso.

I took a step back, right into Brandon's chest.

"Oh, my God," I whispered.

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

"I've loved you my whole life," Elliot continues, his lips moving against my collarbone. Slowly I open my eyes, and he looks up at me. "At least from the minute I ever thought about love, sex, and women."

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

"I missed you." I bend, kissing his neck, his jaw.

He pulls me back by my shoulders, and I watch two heavy tears roll over his cheekbone. "I thought I would never touch you again."

"I thought that, too."

He bites his lower lip, eyes wide. "I'll take anything you give me. Is that pathetic?"

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

Dad pursed his lips, thinking. "So he's your Lais."

My eyes filled with tears again at the sound of my mother's name. I hadn't heard him say that in years.

"You're both young, but... if he is that person for you," Dad continued, "you won't be able to just be friends. You'll want to give him everything, to show him every way you love him."

Tears spilled, running down my cheeks.

"I'd take any amount of time with her," he whispered, turning to look at me. "I would have taken anything I could get. I don't regret one moment of loving her, even though it still hurts that she's gone."

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

"I do," he growled. "I love you so fucking much. I love you, and I lust you and want you. I love you as the person I want to be with forever. I just... Macy? Will you marry me?"

Time stopped. Planets aligned and then shifted apart. Years passed. The voices and music of clinking glasses all around me faded to nothing and all I could hear was the echo of his blurted proposal.

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

"And, I don't know, Mace. You're not here. So I don't really give a shit who is."

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Maggie Hotmer@maggielynn8

His kiss is an aching prayer; devotion pours from him.

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