Meet Me in the Bathroom
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Meet Me in the Bathroom Rebirth and Rock and Roll in New York City 2001–2011

Lizzy Goodman2017
A SUNDAY TIMES, ROUGH TRADE, MOJO AND UNCUT BOOK OF THE YEAR New York, 2001. 9/11 plunges the US into a state of war and political volatility-and heralds the rebirth of the city's rock scene. As the old-guard music industry crumbles, a group of iconoclastic bands suddenly become the voice of a generation desperately in need of an anthem. In this fascinating and vibrant oral history, acclaimed journalist Lizzy Goodman charts New York's explosive musical transformation in the early 2000s. Drawing on over 200 original interviews, Goodman follows the meteoric rise of the artists that revolutionised the cultural landscape and made Brooklyn the hipster capital of cool-including The Strokes, The Yeah Yeah Yeahs, LCD Soundsystem, Interpol, and Vampire Weekend. Joining the ranks of classics like Please Kill Me, Our Band Could Be Your Life, and Can't Stop Won't Stop, Meet Me in the Bathroom is the definitive account of an iconic era in rock-and-roll.
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Mykyta Barabanov@mukuta
5 stars
Oct 25, 2022

As biased as I may be about the phenomena of that type of music - the mere dream of ever contributing, even so slightly, to something as culturally significant as New York music scene of 2000's, is enough to make up for all the anxiety of not living up to the world of creativity that spurred into our lives whether you known it or not. "Don't be a coconut" and choose what you listen to consciously.

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Mykyta Barabanov@mukut
5 stars
Aug 15, 2022

As biased as I may be about the phenomena of that type of music - the mere dream of ever contributing, even so slightly, to something as culturally significant as New York music scene of 2000's, is enough to make up for all the anxiety of not living up to the world of creativity that spurred into our lives whether you known it or not. "Don't be a coconut" and choose what you listen to consciously.

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aem@anaees
5 stars
Apr 16, 2022

** spoiler alert ** Ryan Adams is a knob.

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Marlee Stark@smstark
4 stars
Jan 17, 2022

Took awhile for me to get used to the format but overall an enjoyable read

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Sarah Christine Gill@Gilly
4 stars
Dec 28, 2021

Long and a bit repetitive but overall I enjoyed this! I like that it is just intensely focused on a specific time and place: New York's music scene in the early 2000s - and the oral history style was perfect for telling this story. It's basically 200 interviews with bands, music journalists and bloggers, producers, party makers and publicists edited into a narrative. Pretty cool and super atmospheric. Most interesting parts for me were about the impact of 9/11, Iraq and Bush on New Yorkers and on the musicians making music there. And the arrival of the internet, blogs / new media and Napster on the music industry. Would have loved even more of this! Recommend! PS. I could have done with a print-out of the 'who's who' at the beginning haha.

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Ryan Nylander@stayinghydrated
4 stars
Dec 20, 2021

After tearing through the first half of this, the chapters started to feel repetitive, and certain artists (such as the Strokes) felt way over-represented in comparison to others. Still, I'm a fan. First of all, it's tremendously funny. Many of the interviewees come across as egomaniacal assholes, which is acceptable insofar as it's entertaining. There's a lot of name-dropping and shit-talking, and misty-eyed nostalgia for the good old days before iPhones, when New York was still dangerous. It's important to note that these dudes are (for the most part) preppy white guys who could afford to slum it, put on a bohemian disguise for a few years, and then move on unscathed. It's surprising that there aren't more anecdotes about getting mugged, seeing as many of them were arguably asking for it. (It is pretty funny to read, on the other hand, that apparently Jack White can fight.) Perhaps I'm a bit gullible for being impressed by all the name-dropping, but something that hadn't occurred to me before this book was how small the New York scene seems to have been. The book makes a really compelling case for a coherent LES bohemia, where everyone knew everyone, when Darren Aronofsky hung out at James Murphy's club, and everyone thought he was a fucking nerd. (If you've ever seen Pi, you might agree.) I feel like most people who bought and read this were into the music while it was fresh. Personally, I was too young. I missed this scene completely; I came to New York just a few years back and of course, there's nothing left of the LES and Williamsburg that the interviewees are talking about. Young people seem to come to New York for the food scene nowadays. Rock still exists, but it's greatly diminished, a legacy art, a form of Americana. So maybe you can forgive me for swallowing some of this bullshit -- borrowed nostalgia is a hell of a drug. I don't mean to be reactionary about it, by the way. Nothing lasts forever. Rock music began as an underground art form, and it's long since returned from whence it came, with bands everywhere continuing to create exciting art on the margins of popular music. The douche-y, sexist, cooler-than-thou boys' club that this book focuses on had its day, and now we're all a tad too woke to enjoy its libidinal thrills. But despite the questionable morality of it all, I have to wonder; what would it take to get people dancing like this again?

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Juan Sacco@catsup_plate
4 stars
Apr 12, 2022
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Mat Connor@mconnor
5 stars
Jun 25, 2024
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Vincent de Widt@vdewidt
4 stars
Apr 4, 2024
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Allison Dempsey@alliedempsey
5 stars
Feb 22, 2024
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savannah eden@savbrads
5 stars
Jan 8, 2024
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Jayme Cochrane@jamesco
4 stars
Dec 20, 2023
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logan chung@lchungr
4 stars
Nov 17, 2023
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Cullen Bounds@cwillbounds
3 stars
Sep 13, 2023
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Jeffrey Mack@jeffreymack
4 stars
Aug 1, 2023
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Thomas clegg@thmsclegg
5 stars
Mar 26, 2023
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Sara Piteira @sararsp
5 stars
Oct 31, 2022
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alina s@asupernova
4 stars
Aug 23, 2022
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Aleksander Pruz@aleksanderprus
4 stars
Aug 15, 2022
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Skye@skyeslibrary
5 stars
Mar 22, 2022
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Summer Stanley@sgs
3 stars
Jan 3, 2022
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Cola@theycallmecola
5 stars
Dec 17, 2021
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Dean Peterson@deanpeterson
4 stars
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Pedro Soares@pedros_oares
4 stars
Sep 7, 2021

Highlights

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Sarah Christine Gill@Gilly

Thanks also to PR powerhouse Katie Steinberg, a crucial addition to the Meet Me team, as well as to Susan Amster, who took a book in which rock stars talk about making their own crack and made it legally publishable.

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JAMES MURPHY: “Scene” was never a dirty word. “Scene” was a good word pre-hipster. A scene was what you were proud of. We were trying to build a scene. At the same time we were myth building, we were scene building. Now it seems grotesque. But before universal hipster-ism, that was what you were proud of—where you were from, your family. As a kid you were defined by what you listened to. These days, everyone strives to be the surprise. But everyone is striving to be the surprise in the exact same way. “Oh, you have a unicycle and antlers and a wax recorder? Surprise!”

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MOBY: Now you could reach your audience more directly. In the eighties and nineties, there were five outlets—there was Spin, Rolling Stone, MTV, VH1, and alternative rock radio—and if you didn’t have the support of those five things, your label was going to drop you and no one would hear your records. Suddenly, with the Internet, people could reach people directly, bypass the gatekeepers, and have almost, in a weird way, a more authentic experience. The art was more authentic and the relationship the artists had with the audience was more authentic. Personally, I think very much the Internet has benefited music, because there’s less profit motive, so I think that people have no incentive to compromise. 

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ALEX WAGNER: I absolutely think that those were moments of national trauma for generations that moved through it, and generations that just kind of heard about it. It’s a triptych: the election, 9/11, and then the invasion of Iraq. I don’t think you can underestimate how much that has changed the internal and external landscape of American identity.

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JOE LEVY: What people love about New York is what they hate about New York: it’s constantly changing. So it was always better before, whenever “before” was—basically whenever the person talking was twenty-two.

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JAMES MURPHY: Tyler was there for film, so we went to some crazy film party where people were putting out baguettes of cocaine.

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JULIAN CASABLANCAS: Gordon just had the right ingredients for us. We tried to do the same songs with other people and they sounded totally stale. Gordon is the king of understanding abstract information. You’d get further by saying, “Could you make it sound more yellow?” than you could saying, “Take out the bottom end,” or something. He’d get it. RYAN GENTLES: Gordon is such a great interpreter of musicians. Julian won’t say, “That hi-hat is too trebly, turn the bass up or the treble down.” He’ll say, “I need the hi-hat to sound like the rich guy who hangs out at the party and doesn’t talk to girls, waits for them to come and talk to him,” and Gordon is like, “Okay.” That’s almost verbatim how I’ve heard him describe a hi-hat sound. “It’s too much like the way a sleeping bum smells on a Friday night when he’s had too much booze; I don’t want it to smell like that, gussy it up and shave him. That’s the snare drum sound I want.” He talks in analogies like that and Gordon understands them.

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WARREN FISCHER: It sounds ridiculous at this point, but being able to e-mail people on a daily basis was a habit that was very new in 1998 and 1999. These were the embryonic stages of web press or record labels having websites. The Internet facilitated our presence internationally. It connected microscopic but like-minded themes from different places. Suddenly it’s not Chicago, it’s not Seattle, it’s not New York, it’s not Brooklyn, it’s not Miami, it’s not Chapel Hill, it’s just a sound.

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JAMES MURPHY: I'd already seen David at Marcus and Dom's party. He wanted to do a basement thing underground after making the record, so we just went. There were just a bunch of people, though we hadn't quite gelled as a crew as yet. We were not yet the DFA wrecking crew. I'd just go and listen. TIM GOLDSWORTHY: But then it happened. I guess James probably got clearance from his therapist that he should do some ecstasy, because he was big into that. Three-times-a-week therapy since he was like six or something. So one weekend James decides that he can do it and he buys about twenty packs of Juicy Fruit because he's heard or read somewhere that you chew a lot of gum when you're high. Within the first half hour he's so excited that he's handed out his chewing gum to everybody in the club, so now there's a whole nightclub full of people chewing Juicy Fruit. MARCUS LAMBKIN: That's classic James, to get prepared for something. To get all kitted out and have everything ready. JAMES MURPHY: I was like, Sure, I'll try one." I was just going to try it to try it, but then it was the greatest thing ever! It was fucking awesome and I was dancing and I was happy and I had a revelation: This is actually me. I was fully me. I was dancing and I was fully conscious. I wasn't sloppy. I wasn't drunk. I was alert and I was aware that I really enjoyed dancing. "This is me dancing. This isn't the drugs dancing. This is the drugs stopping myself from stopping myself from dancing."

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TIM GOLDSWORTHY: Around '88, we had a big revolution in the UK. DOMINIQUE KEEGAN: The Summer of Love. TIM GOLDSWORTHY: In '87 I was wearing all black trying to look like I was in the Velvet Underground, and then it was suddenly about ec-stasy: shaved head, all of us out in the field, dancing. SIMON REYNOLDS: It was initially based around imported music from America- Chicago, Detroit, and New York house music, and techno. But very quickly people started making very homegrown British music. And in England the vibe was determined by ecstasy. So there was a lot of breaking down of gender barriers, sexual barriers, racial barriers, a lot of idealism. People would go along to these parties and raves, not expecting it to have such a strong impact on their life, but it wasn't anything like the typical clubbing. Clubbing in the eighties had been sort of cool oriented, cold and posy. This was people losing it in a mass way, a collective high, dancing all night. Especially the events that were illegal and unlicensed in barns or warehouses; those events had a tremendous electric atmosphere of anarchy. So people embraced that idea of clubbing all weekend without sleep, having that high, and then crashing. You couldn't wait until the next week. You got locked into this lifestyle of raving. After you had that experience, it was quite hard to go back to seeing a band onstage. TIM GOLDSWORTHY: Electronica--horrible thing but that's what I'm going to call it-was starting to take in Britain. You were seeing people like my first band, Unkle, going from selling a few twelve- inches to suddenly selling a lot and touring and doing festivals and becoming proper ands. SIMON REYNOLDS: It was about beat and sound culture in Britain. Massive Attack was one of the main Bristol groups, and their whole strategy was they were like record nerds. They took these obscure soul, jazz records, and some post-punk ones as well, and they would take the best bits of them and create new music out of their record collection. That was the big thing. That is where Tim Goldsworthy comes from, the beat scholar and sample scholar. It was a generation of smoking weed, taking other drugs, and being very sensitized to all of sound, the textures of sound, sound that could create intense pleasure and pictures in your mind. A psychedelic dance culture.

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PAUL MAROON: He came out of the seventies and early eighties New York disco scene. He's just from another land, really. He's a character out of a Martin Scorsese movie. If you ever see a man driving a seventies Cadillac backing up down Canal Street trying to get a parking space, it's him. That's my memory of him. Just backing down four blocks. I think he went to jail for parking tickets. That's not easy to do.

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DAVE BURTON: Everybody drank at the Mars Bar. DENNIS CAHLO: Wow, that place was disgusting. ANDREW VANWYNGARDEN: The first time I went to New York as an adult, we went to Mars Bar and were drinking shots of tequila in little plastic cups. I really liked that disgusting place. TUNDE ADEBIMPE: I got electrocuted at Mars Bar.

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PAUL MAROON: Sarah Lawrence was not a college. It was like going to very, very out-of-control bar. I don't know anyone who actually graduated from there.

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After that summer, I went back to college, studied romantic poetry, and wrote a thesis on the Iliad. Nick dropped out and played SNL. It was a time that felt dizzying, though it turned out to be the calm be- fore the many storms of the new millennium. September 11. Then came the frenetic remaking of New York, and all the weird new phenomena of the rising twenty-first century: the Internet, the iPod, Facebook and Twitter, the colonization of Brooklyn. In the late nineties, in the couple-year period before all these changes really began, the music scene in New York had a giddy feel to it. We sensed something important had been unleashed, even if it was unfathomable that anyone besides us would ever care. The city felt both expansive and intimate - forgotten by everyone else, it seemed to belong only to us, to the drugs, to the music, to the other kids doing drugs and worshiping music. The Strokes and their immediate cohorts, mostly forgotten bands you will read about here like the Mooney Suzuki and Jonathan Fire"Eater, as well as ones you likely know, like Yeah Yeah Yeahs, LCD Sound-system, the Killers, and Kings of Leon, were the soundtrack to that fragile era. But it also wasn't really about bands. We didn't even think of them as bands, exactly. Real bands were professional rock stars, Pearl Jam or Oasis. The Strokes and their like were co-conspirators, comrades in the pursuit of "youth and abandon," the shorthand a few friends and I used to describe those nights that started as Tuesdays and ended up as Jim Jarmusch movies: vodka sodas and pizza and dress-up at someone's house, followed by drinks at whatever bar we had a friend working at that night, followed by Interpol with ten other people at some dank after-hours club with moldy carpeting, followed by disco fries at the diner, followed by wearing last night's makeup to ten A.M. class.