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How to Say Babylon A Memoir

With echoes of Educated and Born a Crime, How to Say Babylon is the stunning story of the author’s struggle to break free of her rigid Rastafarian upbringing, ruled by her father’s strict patriarchal views and repressive control of her childhood, to find her own voice as a woman and poet. Throughout her childhood, Safiya Sinclair’s father, a volatile reggae musician and militant adherent to a strict sect of Rastafari, became obsessed with her purity, in particular, with the threat of what Rastas call Babylon, the immoral and corrupting influences of the Western world outside their home. He worried that womanhood would make Safiya and her sisters morally weak and impure, and believed a woman’s highest virtue was her obedience. In an effort to keep Babylon outside the gate, he forbade almost everything. In place of pants, the women in her family were made to wear long skirts and dresses to cover their arms and legs, head wraps to cover their hair, no make-up, no jewelry, no opinions, no friends. Safiya’s mother, while loyal to her father, nonetheless gave Safiya and her siblings the gift of books, including poetry, to which Safiya latched on for dear life. And as Safiya watched her mother struggle voicelessly for years under housework and the rigidity of her father’s beliefs, she increasingly used her education as a sharp tool with which to find her voice and break free. Inevitably, with her rebellion comes clashes with her father, whose rage and paranoia explodes in increasing violence. As Safiya’s voice grows, lyrically and poetically, a collision course is set between them. How to Say Babylon is Sinclair’s reckoning with the culture that initially nourished but ultimately sought to silence her; it is her reckoning with patriarchy and tradition, and the legacy of colonialism in Jamaica. Rich in lyricism and language only a poet could evoke, How to Say Babylon is both a universal story of a woman finding her own power and a unique glimpse into a rarefied world we may know how to name, Rastafari, but one we know little about.
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Victoria Justice@litatori
5 stars
Oct 12, 2023

How to Say Babylon is a harrowing and heartbreaking account of the authors upbringing under her father's oppressive Rastafarian faith.

The history of Jamaica and the insight into the Rastafari way of life, when combined with the authors lyrical prose, was honest, beautifully told, and emotionally raw! The audiobook narrated by the author helped to capture all of her emotion and power as she exerts herself against her father and forges her own path based on who she believes herself to be.

Definitely check trigger warnings before diving in. Some of the memories tackled are heartbreaking, and the author hasn't held back when accounting them.

A very empowering memoir that has you crying both tears of pain and joy as the author combats various trials and triumphs in her life. It's possibly my favourite nonfiction read of 2023!

+4
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Macy HB@macyhb
4.5 stars
Sep 30, 2024
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Alia Lasquete@alianicole
4 stars
Aug 12, 2024
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Lindsay@schnurln
+6
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Amelia C @coffeewithamelia
5 stars
May 20, 2024

Highlights

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Macy HB@macyhb

This must be the chapter before she falls, I thought. If my parents had taught me anything, it was to keep watch for the next disaster at hand. Happiness was only a trick of the light.

Page 214
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Macy HB@macyhb

I watched my mother and found in her long silences something potent waiting to be said, like the anxious moment before thunder.

Page 108
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Macy HB@macyhb

If she was with us, she was ours. But this must have been lonely for her.

Page 76

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