Sex and Vanity
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Sex and Vanity

Kevin Kwan2020
The iconic author of the bestselling phenomenon Crazy Rich Asians returns with a glittering tale of love and longing as a young woman finds herself torn between two worlds--the WASP establishment of her father's family and George Zao, a man she is desperately trying to avoid falling in love with. On her very first morning on the jewel-like island of Capri, Lucie Churchill sets eyes on George Zao and she instantly can't stand him. She can't stand it when he gallantly offers to trade hotel rooms with her so that she can have the view of the Tyrrhenian Sea, she can't stand that he knows more about Curzio Malaparte than she does, and she really can't stand it when he kisses her in the darkness of the ancient ruins of a Roman villa and they are caught by her snobbish, disapproving cousin, Charlotte. "Your mother is Chinese so it's no surprise you'd be attracted to someone like him," Charlotte teases. Daughter of an American-born-Chinese mother and blue-blooded New York father, Lucie has always sublimated the Asian side of herself in favor of the white side, and she adamantly denies having feelings for George. But several years later, when George unexpectedly appears in East Hampton where Lucie is weekending with her new fiancé, Lucie finds herself drawn to George again. Soon, Lucy is spinning a web of deceit that involves her family, her fiancé, the co-op board of her Fifth Avenue apartment, and ultimately herself as she tries mightily to deny George entry into her world--and her heart. Moving between summer playgrounds of privilege, peppered with decadent food and extravagant fashion, Sex and Vanity is a truly modern love story, a daring homage to A Room with a View, and a brilliantly funny comedy of manners set between two cultures.
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kuuri@kuuri
5 stars
Sep 23, 2024

i’m so glad that i had somehow saved this for last without knowing that it’s the first of kevin kwan’s cities series. this is now by far my favorite work of his, even though the book’s overall reception has been mixed.

to me, kwan has always been an astute judge of character. he uses this to his advantage by staging the most dramatic ironies for rich people—which i understand may not be everyone’s cup of tea. i picked up this title fully prepared to laugh my socks off. yet i was not prepared for the romance to sweep me off my feet. what i wouldn’t give to meet a george zao in real life. here i was thinking i was too old for fictional love; i suppose i just hadn’t gotten a riveting book until now.

i’d be the first to admit that lucie is not perfect. she is flawed—regretfully so—and she takes things to an extreme in an effort to save face. but unlike other readers, i refuse to knock off stars in my review simply because she isn’t the most likeable character. she suffers the consequences of her actions anyway, giving her the opportunity to confront her beliefs.

all in all, i appreciate how this book leaves me with matters to think about long after i’ve turned the last page. you don’t always get that with your average contemporary romance.

+5
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Moth@inkdrunkmoth
3 stars
Aug 16, 2023

2.5 rounds up to 3.

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Imogen west@imogen1005
3 stars
Jun 6, 2023

Not quite as addictive as crazy rich Asians. I think the protagonist wasn't likeable enough and it felt a little repetitive regarding how she viewed her race without actually developing this point/having any real resolution. Still a nice read.

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Rachael Schafer@ratchschaf
1 star
Mar 2, 2023

I hated it. I sped read the second half.

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Ju@juncoard
3 stars
Dec 17, 2022

** spoiler alert ** SPOILERS AHEAD Honestly i put three stars because it was a good read. I was however disappointed by the lack of intrigue, the first chapters were the best and should have been the whole book but they also completely laid out the ending which was a shame. Maybe i am too much of a leftist to be able to feel any compassion for the uber rich people’s problems but honestly that girl has the emotional IQ of a teenager. I could have understood the dilemma if George had any bad qualities but the man is portrayed like a perfect human with no flaws, how dumb do you have to be to want to marry an influencer douche ??

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Meaghan Little @lil_megs
2.5 stars
Oct 16, 2022

Undwhelming and predictable

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Amy Vicknair@ammee411
2 stars
Aug 12, 2022

meh maybe a cute lifetime movie

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solaire @sovreads
1.5 stars
Jul 31, 2022

I read this because kevin kwan is the author, the story itself was quite a headache. I was looking forward for the same humor as the crazy rich asian trilogy. But it was okay, it was not that bad. But one thing is for sure, it’s not my type of book.

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grayson wroe@gkwroe
4 stars
Jul 25, 2022

wow. just wow. at first, kwan’s writing was a little pretentious to me and i felt like i was just reading a thesaurus front to back, but as i continued it fully grew on me. i’ve never read anything like this! every page transported me to somewhere new and he was able to paint such elaborate scenes that supplemented the plot just as much as the dialogue did. these characters. so many layers and so much gossip and drama and just every bit of wonderfulness that i could’ve wanted! i am in LOVE with george zao and want him to teach me how to surf at bondi beach there’s a lot to say about this book but i feel like all of my words will be inadequate so i’ll just leave it at this: a story with a preposterous plot and preposterous people that was pretentious, but in a charming way! i adored this, but now i need a break from reading a man’s writing and i’ll be heading back over to my contemporary romance girlies

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Eliza adkins @elizareadsalot
5 stars
May 23, 2022

Imagine Crazy Rich Asians meets rich New York socialites I could not stop smiling throughout the whole book

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Tamara Turner@bookish_phrasing
3 stars
Mar 30, 2022

Everything was so beautiful for the first 150 pages or so and then. We get to see how Lucie struggles with her more Asian prominent features, fall in love and feel out of place among the rich snobs at Isabella's wedding AND THEN SHE EFS IT ALL UP AND GETS ENGAGED TO EFFING CECIL. Seriously, I was really confused during the second part of the book. But ya know, at least there's a nice ending and Lucie realizes how idiotic she had been. Also, it's the first book I've read that focuses on rich people and their lavish lives(I thruthfully, fully, sincerely-NOT- deny any accusations of having had Wattpad). Maybe someday I will reread the book and try to picture those houses or something

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Ana Cob@anacob
4 stars
Mar 8, 2022

Just the read I needed this summer, an extra star thrown in because of that. Otherwise a just fine romantic book...

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Tracey O’Rourke@simiavus
3 stars
Jan 9, 2022

Disappointing. I had great hopes for the funny, juicy, pandemic read, but it never got as good as I wanted it too.

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Jennifer Dieter@jdeets03
3 stars
Dec 30, 2021

I do appreciate reading a book about wealthy people where the main characters are not white. And characters like Lucie are important and should be centered more often in literature. And while I did feel empathy for the racism she experiences as someone who is half Chinese, it’s really hard for me to empathize with the super wealthy. There was an excessive amount of name dropping when it came to expensive brands that just felt obnoxious. Kwan, however, does effectively show that being wealthy does not make someone immune to racism. Overall, this was a breezy, mostly enjoyable read. I haven’t read Crazy Rich Asians, so I’ll definitely plan to check out that series.

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Michelle Miller@bookishwifey
1 star
Dec 20, 2021

I just couldn't get into this book. Made it 32% of the way in and I had absolutely no desire to keep listening.

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Kweh Quiambao@gwenduling
3 stars
Jan 5, 2024
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ella hardy @mimi_hardy
2.5 stars
Oct 22, 2022
+2
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Megan@megangrace
4.5 stars
May 19, 2022
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Clairito@clairito
5 stars
Dec 27, 2021
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Aiko van de gaer @aikovdg
4 stars
Jul 17, 2024
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Tarannum Kamlani@tarannumsaurus
3 stars
Jul 4, 2024
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Helen Bright@lemonista
3 stars
Jul 4, 2024
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Martha F.@marthaq
5 stars
Mar 6, 2024
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Allison Dempsey@alliedempsey
3 stars
Feb 22, 2024

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