The Vanishing American Adult

The Vanishing American Adult Our Coming-of-Age Crisis--and How to Rebuild a Culture of Self-Reliance

Ben Sasse2017
THE INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER In an era of safe spaces, trigger warnings, and an unprecedented election, the country's youth are in crisis. Senator Ben Sasse warns the nation about the existential threat to America's future. Raised by well-meaning but overprotective parents and coddled by well-meaning but misbegotten government programs, America's youth are ill-equipped to survive in our highly-competitive global economy. Many of the coming-of-age rituals that have defined the American experience since the Founding: learning the value of working with your hands, leaving home to start a family, becoming economically self-reliant—are being delayed or skipped altogether. The statistics are daunting: 30% of college students drop out after the first year, and only 4 in 10 graduate. One in three 18-to-34 year-olds live with their parents. From these disparate phenomena: Nebraska Senator Ben Sasse who as president of a Midwestern college observed the trials of this generation up close, sees an existential threat to the American way of life. In The Vanishing American Adult, Sasse diagnoses the causes of a generation that can't grow up and offers a path for raising children to become active and engaged citizens. He identifies core formative experiences that all young people should pursue: hard work to appreciate the benefits of labor, travel to understand deprivation and want, the power of reading, the importance of nurturing your body—and explains how parents can encourage them. Our democracy depends on responsible, contributing adults to function properly—without them America falls prey to populist demagogues. A call to arms, The Vanishing American Adult will ignite a much-needed debate about the link between the way we're raising our children and the future of our country.
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Megan Parrott@meganparrott
2 stars
Jul 5, 2024

I went into this with a ~mostly~ open mind, but give me a break.* This quote, from an NYT review, sums it up for me: "It must be nice to be Ben Sasse, in a position to pick and choose the hardships one will adopt in order to learn some life lessons — and to feel morally superior for having triumphed over phony adversity. But to anyone who buys into the notion, especially now, that the country’s political future can be rescued by getting our toddlers to bring us our socks, one can only say: Good luck with that." *Coming from a yet another millennial who's tired of being ragged on for every failing

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Wynn Netherland@wynn
5 stars
Jan 5, 2022

Not a policy book nor a "kids today!" rant. Sasse challenges basic assumptions that less struggle and more education will create the best outcomes in adulthood. He challenges our growing American passivity and calls for a mindful approach to education that "flees age segregation" and puts learning above acquiring knowledge. A thought-provoking read for anyone, but especially school-aged parents.

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Colton Ray@coltonmray
3 stars
Apr 16, 2024
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Luke Stamps@lukestamps
4 stars
Jun 20, 2023
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Alex Spurrier@alspur
4 stars
Oct 15, 2022
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Todd Luallen@tluallen
5 stars
Aug 29, 2022
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Joseph@iamjmw
5 stars
Oct 31, 2021

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