This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage

This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage

Ann Patchett2013
Offering an invitation into her personal life, the noted author shares the stories of the people, places, ideals, and art to which she has remained indelibly committed.
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Trish@concerningnovelas
4 stars
Jan 4, 2023

Sometimes love does not have the most honorable beginnings, and the endings, the endings will break you in half. It's everything in between we live for. This was my first encounter with Ann Patchett and her writing and I must say I'm thoroughly impressed. In reading this collection I've realized that there are so many authors whose works I love but whom I do not know at all. The only other book I can think of that provided such a window into the author's soul was Jeannette Walls's The Glass Castle. Though Walls wrote a memoir and Patchett put together some of her favorite articles and essays she's written over the years, both are candid, funny (at times), heartbreaking (at times), and so very unapologetically honest. My favorite stories/entries were the ones about Rose, Ann's unique relationship with Karl, and the one about Ann's 'work' vacation at the Hotel Bel-Air. There is no doubt in my mind, now that I know I adore and admire this author as a person, that I will read her works of fiction in the near future. For more bookish photos, reviews and updates follow me on instagram @concerningnovels.

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Elizabeth Moore@haddyaddy
4 stars
Jun 9, 2022

Ann rocks!! I really enjoyed this book, and really really want to go and hang out with Ann and have her tell me more stories. These essays are so well put together and they are beautiful together as a whole piece. Some stories did it more for me than others, and I was especially fond of Ann's stories about her dad and training for the LAPD, her relationship with her husband Karl, her dog Rose (TISSUES!), the story of her bookstore, and some of her shorter pieces like the piece on Tennessee and the story about the flood in Nashville. So basically I liked everything. I will say that as a reader and badly-out-of-practice writer, The Getaway Car actually wasn't one of my favorite stories in this collection; I've found myself way more attached to memoirs on writing such as Bird By Bird (Annie Lamott) and On Writing (Stephen King), but that's just me. Go do yourself a favor and read this with a happy glass of wine (or three)!

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Lauren Attaway@camcray
4 stars
Jan 26, 2022

I honestly have not read any of Ann Patchett's work (for shame, I know) but the mention of her in Elizabeth Gilbert's book Big Magic had me curious. This is a collection of previously published essays for the most part, so while not every section interested me (I had a particularly uncomfortable time with the LAPD one), the writing was always so strong. I definitely will be exploring more of her work, now, because if she can keep me so interested in things that don't interest me, I imagine the fiction is really going to get me.

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Melody Izard@mizard
5 stars
Jan 10, 2022

Hey Ann. So good to meet you. Oh my gosh I am such of fan! Bel Canto is one of my favorites. But, I really knew nothing about you. I don't want to know as much about you as, say, Anne Lamott likes to tell. But I did like seeing your realness. And I met Eudora Welty too and she autographed a book for me and encouraged me to write. There are other similarities but I don't want to creep you out. I've got more reading to do.

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Megan McMorran@meganlee
5 stars
Dec 3, 2021

Patchett is confident, clear -- a seasoned essayist and novelist. This collection of essays is a satisfying assortment that includes an unsentimental perspective of her happy marriage; an account of trying out for the LAPD that includes her training at the police academy (Patchett's father worked for the LAPD) and what I consider to be one of the finest accounts of becoming a writer I've ever read (and I've read and heard plenty). Aspiring writers take note.

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Michael Hessling@cherrypj
5 stars
Jun 8, 2021

Great collection of essays. Superb writer. My favorite essay was the one on writing, of course.

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v@heartcolored
4 stars
Feb 22, 2025
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Diane Calello@drdianec
4.5 stars
Sep 18, 2024
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Sarah Bryan @sarahmcbryan
5 stars
Jul 12, 2024
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Jessica Gardner@jesscga
5 stars
Aug 17, 2022
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Karla America Breier@karlab_peach
3.5 stars
Apr 12, 2022
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Allison Garber@allygarbs
5 stars
Jul 5, 2024
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Andrew Reeves@awreeves
2 stars
Jul 5, 2024
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Emily Burns@emilymelissabee
3 stars
Jul 3, 2024
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Pratik M@pcmhatre
5 stars
Jun 26, 2024
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Brian Wikene@bjwikene
4 stars
Mar 11, 2024
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Andréa Mellalieu@dremellalieu
5 stars
Jan 3, 2024
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Amy Thibodeau@amythibodeau
3 stars
Dec 26, 2022
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Belle@bellebcooper
4 stars
Nov 6, 2022
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John Elbing@palebluedot
4 stars
Aug 21, 2022
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Kit@nightswimming
4 stars
Aug 14, 2022
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Ellen Chisa@ellenchisa
4 stars
Jul 17, 2022
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Cindy Lieberman@chicindy
5 stars
Mar 26, 2022
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Jessie@jraelew
2 stars
Feb 24, 2022

Highlights

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v@heartcolored

"We are, on this earth, so incredibly small, in the history of time, in the crowd of the world, and we are practically invisible, not even a dot, and yet we have each other to hold on to."

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v@heartcolored

"Clearly, we are not all ruined, and if we are, at some point it becomes our own responsibility."