How To Think More About Sex

How To Think More About Sex

" ... [In] this rigorous and supremely honest book Alain de Botton helps us navigate the intimate and exciting yet often confusing and difficult experience that is sex. Few of us tend to feel we're entirely normal when it comes to sex, and what we're supposed to be feeling rarely matches up with the reality. This book argues that 21st-century sex is ultimately fated to be a balancing act between love and desire, and adventure and commitment. ..." --Back cover.
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Kehinde Adeleke@adeleke5140
4 stars
Jun 27, 2023

Well, this was entertaining. I don't necessarily agree with a lot of what Alain had to say but well, that's probably because I have a religious bias to the role of sex. The conclusion though was quite interesting and it's not exactly a rule book. It is an okay read. I read it a second time: I believe good books should be read more than once and Alain de botton’s falls into that category as well. His ideas and analysis of our awkwardness around sex and it’s supposed “nastiness” are still refreshing to read. I’m much more open-minded this time as a result of my introspective investigation of my beliefs. I’d say the chapter on Adultery still raises eyebrows from me but his accompanying section on how Adultery isn’t the solution to love grown cold was a nice addition. This is a book I’d be reading multiple times in the future and a must read for young adults.

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heleen de boever@hlndb
2 stars
Apr 14, 2023

Somewhat confusing and, safe from a few fragments of sheer brilliance, mostly disappointing.

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Fabio Bracht@bracht
4 stars
Jan 18, 2023

Em capítulos sobre fetiches, desconfortos, prazeres, neutras, pornografia, definição do que é sexy, traição e rotina, entre outros, o filósofo Alain de Botton descortina e oferece vários insights ótimos sobre um assunto sobre o qual pensamos muito – mas frequentemente errado.

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Alexander Lobov@alexlobov
2 stars
Jun 10, 2022

Derivative, obvious and lacking a single good idea. Poorly written to boot. De Botton has really fallen off.

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Luca Conti@lucaconti
5 stars
Sep 10, 2021

ricco di spunti e riflessioni

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Alex Ker@alexker
4 stars
Dec 19, 2022
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Meelahn@iacovibus
4 stars
Aug 24, 2022
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Mounir Bashour@bashour
3 stars
Aug 15, 2022
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Brendan M@elysium
4 stars
Aug 13, 2022
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Carolyn Yoo@cyoo
3 stars
Aug 12, 2022
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Vivian@vivian_munich
3 stars
Apr 22, 2022
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Joana.Mourinho@isa_23
3 stars
Apr 12, 2022
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Kevin Spachuk@spacious1
3 stars
Mar 8, 2022
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Alex Gee@alexgee
3 stars
Jan 26, 2022
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Maggie Delano@maggiedelano
2 stars
Jan 2, 2022
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Amanda Wells@amandawells
3 stars
Nov 25, 2021
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Mikkel Malmberg@mikker
5 stars
Nov 18, 2021
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Kinnari @kinnari
4 stars
Oct 26, 2021
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kayk@hel
3 stars
Sep 14, 2021
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Teshia Treuhaft@teshia
4 stars
Aug 12, 2021
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Hazel Evans@hzlvns
4 stars
Aug 12, 2021
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Gabi Garcia@productgabi
3 stars
Jul 29, 2021

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