Name: Olivera Mitić's review of Loose Girl by Kerry Cohen
Item: Loose Girl
Rating: 4
Author: Olivera Mitić

Kerry Cohen

"Cohen's brutal honesty about her relentless quest for companionship is refreshingly relatable." --Entertainment Weekly "Cohen recounts her harrowing litany of hookups through clear, poignant, spare-no-details prose." --Marie Claire Kerry Cohen's journey from that hopeless place to her current confident and fulfilled existence is both a cautionary tale and a revelation. Loose Girl is Kerry Cohen's captivating memoir about her descent into promiscuity and how she gradually found her way toward real intimacy. The story of addiction - not just to sex, but to male attention--Loose Girl is also the story of a young girl who came to believe that boys and men could give her life meaning. Never less than riveting, Loose Girl re-creates what it feels like to be in that desperate moment when a girl tries to control a boy by handing over her body, when the touch of that boy seems to offer proof of something but ultimately delivers little more than emptiness. The unforgettable story of one young woman who desperately wanted to matter, Loose Girl will speak to countless others with its compassion, understanding, and love.

A Memoir of Promiscuity

Loose Girl

Olivera Mitić

I'm not usually one for non fiction. Those who follow me here for a while probably know how rare I get down to reading autobiographies and memoirs and stuff like that. When it came to this memoir, I was really drawn to the almost taboo topic it talks about. 

I was quite surprised to how much I enjoyed the book. Kerry has a voice that really stood out to me. Reading this felt like listening to maybe even confessions of a young, lost girl. It felt intimate and the only thing you could be was sympathetic towards her and her choices. 

*probably me throughout the majority of the book*
 

It was written in a way that read like a novel. I kept wondering what was going to happen to her and what else she'd go through until she maybe came to an epiphany that she should change her ways in order to feel content with her life. And exactly that was my problem. It felt like she was this close to realize that and then all of a sudden she met her husband and everything went fine anyways. There wasn't enough reflection which was really too bad, since it kind of ruined the book for me.

I would recommend this to anyone who's interested in the topic because it really is a good read.

For everyone who was that girl. For everyone who knew that girl. For everyone who wondered who that girl was. Kerry Cohen is eleven years old when she recognizes the power of her body in the leer of a grown man. Her parents are recently divorced and it doesn't take long before their lassitude and Kerry's desire to stand out--to be memorable in some way--combine to lead her down a path she knows she shouldn't take. Kerry wanted attention. She wanted love. But not really understanding what love was, not really knowing how to get it, she reached for sex instead. Loose Girl is Kerry Cohen's captivating memoir about her descent into promiscuity and how she gradually found her way toward real intimacy. The story of addiction -- not just to sex, but to male attention -- Loose Girl is also the story of a young girl who came to believe that boys and men could give her life meaning. It didn't matter who he was. It was their movement that mattered, their being together. And for a while, that was enough. From the early rush of exploration to the day she learned to quiet the desperation and allow herself to love and be loved, Kerry's story is never less than riveting. In rich and immediate detail, Loose Girl re-creates what it feels like to be in that desperate moment, when a girl tries to control a boy by handing over her body, when the touch of that boy seems to offer proof of something, but ultimately delivers little more than emptiness. Kerry Cohen's journey from that hopeless place to her current confident and fulfilled existence is a cautionary tale and a revelation for girls young and old. The unforgettable memoir of one young woman who desperately wanted to matter, Loose Girl will speak to countless others with its compassion, understanding, and love.

I.m. ruzz

I grabbed this mainly because who doesn't like horny chicks? I was disappointed to find it swathed in pop psychology, and despite what she says at the end about a prince on a white horse riding in to save her thats exactly how it reads. She gives up her whoring ways when she finds a man who can handle her need and insecurity. if not gives up, at least sets it to the backburner. 

we're likely to see a second book "Loose Girl 2: looser, and older" because she never seemed to really get to the core of her need. She doesn't seem to have the philosophical tools to decode it and as sure as Nikki Sixx hits rehab every six months she's going to be back on random cocks in bathrooms near you.

as an aside, it's mildly nauseating to read the whinings of a spoiled upper middle class jew who's mommy and daddy didn't love her enough, or make things about her enough. 

there are real things to be learnt from overpowering human need and insecurity and i'm not sure she gleaned so much as one of them.

Susan Forsythe

Ryann Rodkey

Brianna Hager

Morgan Kinney

This captivating and deeply emotional memoir pulls back the curtain on the complex relationship women have between their bodies, love, and the way the two work together. Kerry Cohen is eleven years old when she recognizes the power of her body in the leer of a grown man. Her parents are recently divorced and it doesn't take long before their lassitude and Kerry's desire to stand out—to be memorable in some way—combine to lead her down a path she knows she shouldn't take. Kerry wanted attention. She wanted love. But not really understanding what love was, not really knowing how to get it, she reached for sex instead. Loose Girl is Kerry Cohen's captivating memoir about her descent into promiscuity and how she gradually found her way toward real intimacy. The story of addiction—not just to sex, but to male attention—Loose Girl is also the story of a young girl who came to believe that boys and men could give her life meaning. It didn't matter who he was. It was their movement that mattered, their being together. And for a while, that was enough. From the early rush of exploration to the day she learned to quiet the desperation and allow herself to love and be loved, Kerry's story is never less than riveting. In rich and immediate detail, Loose Girl re-creates what it feels like to be in that desperate moment, when a girl tries to control a boy by handing over her body, when the touch of that boy seems to offer proof of something, but ultimately delivers little more than emptiness. Kerry Cohen's journey from that hopeless place to her current confident and fulfilled existence is a cautionary tale and a revelation for girls young and old. The unforgettable memoir of one young woman who desperately wanted to matter, Loose Girl will speak to countless others with its compassion, understanding, and love.

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